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Best cities for Solo Female Travel

18/09/2019 No Comments

In search of a great city break destination? Looking for the best places for solo female travel? As a female travelling alone it can be daunting heading off to a big city for the first time. How do you know if it will be safe? In the most part, the big cities are generally safe places to visit as they are so busy. That being said, I have compiled a list of what I think are the best cities for solo female travel.

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London, England

New York, United States

Wellington, New Zealand

London, England

I have to put my home city first right?! And what a great a great one it is. London is HUGE, I have lived in Greater London all my life and still have not seen it all. From free museums, art galleries, green parks, some of the best shopping and nightlife and let’s not forget the architecture of century old buildings.

There is so much to see in London and I think it’s one of the best cities for solo female travel. The tubes are pretty simple to navigate and there is always someone around if you get stuck. There are so many attractions to see, it’s sometimes even better to visit them alone as you can get so much more done in a short space of time.

If you do make friends in some of the many hostels around the city, then London’s nightlife is amazing. From bars with live bands, the traditional English pub, huge nightclubs, buskers along Southbank or underground music venues- there’s just so much on offer.

A lot of the attractions are free and situated close together. It’s not hard to travel around on the tube and with a travelcard, it’s a fairly reasonable price. At night I still feel safe in the main tourist areas, plus remember in summer it doesn’t get dark til after 9pm, which gives you plenty of daylight to explore.

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New York, United States

I absolutely loved travelling to New York. I liked it even more than I thought I would, especially as I went at Thanksgiving time. It really is magical. I found New York to be a great city for solo female travel as it was so easy to get around. The subway is easy to understand and the people friendly if you do get lost.

Again, like London there is so much to do, you can’t get bored. When I visit a city, I always like to look around the art galleries and in NYC there are many to choose from. I sometimes prefer visiting galleries alone as you can take as much time as you want, and don’t feel you are rushing anyone.

It would have been nice to have someone to experience the nightlife with or to go ice skating (not that I couldn’t have done that alone!) but really, I had a fantastic time, just me myself and I. If you like photography, then there’s no better place to experiment- another activity that’s good to do alone.

New York is an exciting city and an excellent place to visit solo. There’s so much to see and do that you just won’t have the chance to get lonely.

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Singapore

Singapore is one of the safest cities in the world. The people are polite, friendly and respectful of each other. Its so easy to get around on the MRT, everything is in English and the main attractions are situated very close to each other.

There’s a lot to do from visiting the famous super trees at Gardens by the Bay, strolling down Little India and Chinatown and shopping on Orchard Rd. It’s also a great city for a stopover to many places in Southeast Asia or Australia.

The food is delicious and there’s every cuisine you can think of. The architecture is incredible, with green spaces everywhere, creating a garden in a city. You can even take the train to nearby Sentosa island, where you can relax on a pretty beach.

Singapore at night is just as pretty, with light shows at Marina Bay Sands and Gardens by the Bay. Also, the shops are open late, so there is plenty to do in the evening too.

Edinburgh, Scotland

Edinburgh is an easily walkable city, perfect for the solo female traveller. You can walk to pretty much all the main sites and attractions, making is very easy (and cheap) to get around. The hostels are all in central places too. Edinburgh has a lot of museums and art galleries which are great activities to do alone.

Just walking around the historic streets, with cathedrals and churches around every corner is exciting. It’s a widely photogenic city. Walk along the Royal Mile up to Edinburgh Castle (well worth a visit btw). There’s plenty to see and do for solo female travel in Edinburgh. The Scots are super friendly too so you can easily make friends in one of the pubs or in your hostel. There are free walking tours available if you would like a bit of company too.

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Bangkok, Thailand

Bangkok is one of my favourite cities. It’s vibrant, noisy and full of culture. There are many temples to visit in the city, as well as boat cruises, Thai cooking classes, palaces, shopping, cinema, rooftop bars and the famous Khao San Road (a popular street for tourists).

You can wander around the many markets or indulge in the delicious food. Exploring the temples can be a very tranquil experience in the heart of a big city. I feel safe walking around Bangkok alone, even after dark in the busy places I never felt unsafe.

The transport in Bangkok is amazing, easy to use, cheap, there’s air con and the announcements are also said in English. Its also a very backpacker friendly city so you can easily make friends if you’re travelling solo. If you are looking for a private room, you can find these super cheap and in convenient places- great if you’re a solo traveller.

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Siem Reap, Cambodia

Siem Reap is the closest city to the ancient temples of Angkor Wat. It’s also a very friendly and small place, easy to get around and with a great social scene in the hostels. This makes it easy to find friends to enjoy the fun nightlife.

Travelling around solo is no problem and very safe. You can hire a tuk tuk for a day to explore the nearby temples which are truly stunning. The town has lots of markets with friendly locals you can haggle with for the best price on colourful baggy trousers or handmade souvenirs.

They also have many spas and fish pedicures for a little pamper session. They are very cheap and a great way to chill out after a long day on your feet. You can also take a day tour to explore the surrounding countryside, visit the floating markets or take a cooking class.

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Seoul, South Korea

I was so pleased with my visit to Seoul and found it really easy to get around the city. Signs are written in English which helps a lot and its easily navigable, with the attractions not being too far from one another. I also felt very safe here and at night too.

The people can be a little reserved though and sometimes pretend they don’t know much English, which can be untrue as they learn it in school. Although they can be rather quiet, if asked for directions, they are friendly, and most will try and help you as best they can. A small old lady walked 20 minutes with (whilst speaking no English at all) and then pointed at where I needed to be- bless!

Seoul is super fun to explore- try the traditional houses at Bukchon Hanok Village or visit Gyeongbokgung Palace for the changing of the guard. There are also quirky things to do like visit a cat café or find a karaoke room and get your sing song on.

The food is delicious, if not a little spicy, but the Korean BBQ is just to die for. I like the novelty of cooking your own food in the middle of the table. There is also a fun nightlife in Seoul- I went to a hip-hop club with a friend I have over there, which was very funny.

There is also great shopping, museums and art galleries to explore. So why not try Seoul for your next solo trip.

Brisbane, Australia

Brisbane is like Melbourne but with better weather! (don’t get me wrong I do love Melbourne!). I loved exploring Brisbane when I was a solo female traveller here and found the city easy to navigate and very walkable. I also feel very safe walking around and the locals are very friendly and chatty.

Brisbane has a great location, close to the Gold Coast, Australia Zoo and the beautiful hinterland, so a good base to explore further. Take a visit to the Lone Pine Wildlife Sanctuary and have a photo with a koala or a selfie with a kangaroo. There also a city beach with free swimming pool which is great for tourist to chill out in.

You can go shopping, walk or cycle by the river using the city cycle bikes or check out the botanic gardens and sit with a good book. Brisbane has consistently sunny weather year-round so there’s never a bad time to visit. Spring and Autumn are great weather wise. If you love coffee, then there are some great little places here too.

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Abu Dhabi, UAE

Before I visited Abu Dhabi, I was questioning whether it’s a good city for solo female travellers. After some research and of course my own visit, I have found it to be very safe for women travelling alone. The taxi’s I took were very professional and made me feel very welcome.

I only managed to get to the Sheikh Zayed Grand Mosque on my stop-over visit but there’s so much more to do here. The mosque is spectacular, and you can spend several hours there. It’s intricate and colourful architecture mimics the Taj Mahal in many ways and will take your breath away. If you love photography, then you must pay the grand mosque a visit. The staff are also very helpful and welcoming.

If you have more time then you can visit the huge shopping mall, walk along the waterfront or explore the Louvre Abu Dhabi, a contemporary art gallery with stunning architecture to match. You can also go on a desert tour, visit Ferrari world, check out the city from the observation deck or head to the beach on Yas island.

Wellington, New Zealand

New Zealand is one of the safest countries for solo female travel and is perfect for the outdoor adventure types. Wellington is the capital of New Zealand and a cool city, right at the bottom of the North island.

It’s great for art lovers with many galleries and museums. Probably its most known for its cable car, which takes you up to the pretty botanic gardens. You also get amazing views over the pretty harbour.

Everywhere is easily walkable and there are free walking tours available if you fancy some company. Wellington, as well as all the other cities in New Zealand is a great destination for solo female travellers.

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First Time Travelling Alone? Your Questions Answered.

28/08/2019 1 Comment

Travelling alone for the first time? Have a million questions and not sure where to start? Well worry no more- In this post I will answer all your solo female travel questions and (hopefully) put your mind at rest. Travelling alone for the first time can be daunting but should you let that stop you? Absolutely not!

Here are some common first time travelling alone questions- answered!

I’m feeling scared/ nervous/ anxious about travelling alone

Being scared is not necessarily a bad thing- it’s what gives us adrenaline. It’s that flight or fight response that pushes us to do something out of our comfort zone- and instinctively protects us when we’re in danger.

Being able to push past that initial anxiety is well worth trying as I think we tend to over-think things until they build up in our minds, concluding that we can’t possibly do what ever it was that we wanted to do. So my advice to you is stop thinking so much about the ‘what ifs’ as there will always be a reason why ‘I shouldn’t go’. But there are so many reasons as to why you should go.

Talk to other women on solo female Facebook groups and get some friendly advice on the country you want to visit. Talking to others who have done the same can be very reassuring.

Is it safe to travel alone as a woman?

I’m pretty sure this is the number one question asked by all women before their first time travelling alone. We here about so much bad stuff on the news about various countries worldwide, that we believe it’s just not safe to travel alone. But crime happens anywhere- even in your own country and it shouldn’t be a barrier to travelling alone. We as women just must be more cautious and sensible about how we do it.

If you do your research into what you might expect in the destination you’re heading to and use good old common sense, then there’s really no reason why you shouldn’t travel solo. Undoubtedly you will get unwanted attention from men in certain countries but if you are following good safety precautions there’s no need to worry about this.

Being respectful of the local culture by dressing the part, walking with confidence, reading up about any known scams in the area, not walking around after dark, etc. These are all simple ways we can stay safer when travelling abroad.

If you want to read more about dealing with unwanted attention when travelling, then read this……

solo female traveller in peru with mountain backdrop — Be brave!

What if my parents worry about me travelling alone?

Parents understandably worry- it’s basically their job! If you are travelling alone for the first time then of course they might be a little apprehensive. Help them to understand why you want to travel solo and involve them in the process of organising your trip.

It will help parents feel more at ease if they know exactly where you’re going (even if this is a basic itinerary that you update them on once out there, if plans change along the way). Tell them where you are staying and give them copies of your passport details and other important documents like flight itinerary and travel insurance.

Explain about how you will keep yourself safe and ask them for any advice they may have. Work out a plan of action for any problem scenarios that could potentially arise and tell them how you would deal with them. Show them that you’re taking it seriously and that you have thought about what to do if you run into any problems. This shows that you’re taking initiative and are being prepared in the best way possible.

Keep in contact whilst your travelling so they still feel connected and can get hold of you. The more they are in the loop about where you are the less they will worry over you.

What if something goes wrong when I’m travelling?

Travel can sometimes not go the way you planned, flights might get delayed, luggage lost or you might have your belongings stolen, etc. These things can and do happen yes, but things like crime are mostly pretty rare.

Being prepared is one of the best ways you can deal with any problems Already having an idea of what you would do in a certain situation, if it arises, could be very beneficial to you. Having insurance to cover if you get sick or injured can take a huge weight off your shoulders, just knowing there’s people to help when needed.

I guess most things sound horrid when you hear about them but if you are actually in that situation you just deal with it there and then- because you have to. I remember the time I got my purse stolen at a busy festival in Thailand. It was my own silly fault having my purse in an easy reachable place when the streets were packed full of people (duh!). I remember feeling so upset, walking back to the hostel crying and worrying about what to do.

But then I just thought how I needed to deal with this quickly, so I phoned up my banks emergency number which I had already printed out at home- just in case. They cancelled my card straight away and then I got on to telling my mum and asking her to send some money via Western Union (thanks Mum). It would take 3 days to arrive but I could just about get by with my back up money.

At first, I was quite upset but another traveller just said to me “it’s happened, there’s nothing you can do about it now so try not to be upset and let it ruin your time. Get back out and enjoy the festival”. I took their advice and it’s the best thing I could have done. Moral of the story- things go wrong sometimes but after you’ve sorted the problem just get back on with it and don’t let it put a downer on your adventure.

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Where are the best places to travel to alone for the first time?

Anywhere! There’s no right or wrong destination- it’s whatever you’re looking for. What do you want to get out of your trip? Are you looking for off the beaten path adventure? Hiking trips, city breaks, volunteering, an easy-going beach holiday? There are so many places you can travel to alone so go where your heart desires!

If it is your first time travelling alone though, you may want a destination that you think you would be comfortable in. So pick a place that is easy to get around in, maybe a country where they speak reasonably good English. Going to places like South East Asia are great as you will get a chance to meet many other backpackers and its so easy to navigate around.

For more destinations for the first time traveller check out….5 Destinations for the First Time Traveller

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What do I wear as a woman travelling alone?

In some countries it is advisable for woman to cover their shoulders and knees, especially when visiting a religious place. In the middle east you will have to further cover up arms and legs fully (although mostly in the religious places).

Covering up not only is a good safety precaution but it also shows respect for the country and culture you are visiting. To make sure you feel comfortable, do a little research into what you should wear for your chosen destination. Take along a scarf for temples, and some loose long sleeved tops, trousers and skirts. Make sure they are not translucent material either or that kind of defeats the point!

Taking these precautions is a great way to make you feel a lot more comfortable when travelling alone for the first time.

solo female traveler in bali — Try to dress respectively in different cultures

How do I travel alone if I’m shy or quite introverted?

Well this is me in many ways. I’m sometimes not the most sociable of people and I have always been shy. Travelling solo is definitely a great way to overcome some of that shyness. I was put in situations where I had to talk to people, there’s no way around it sometimes. But I had the mindset that when I’m travelling I can be anyone I want to be because no one knows me here.

Also the beauty of travelling alone is that you decide on everything. If you don’t feel like being sociable then that’s ok- travelling by yourself and learning to do things alone can be very empowering and enlightening. It can be a good thing, so being shy shouldn’t stop you at all.

Solo travel is wonderful for self confidence and who knows- it could just be the boost you need.

Will I get lonely travelling solo?

Of course there will be times you will feel a little lonely, just like you might back home? But try to embrace being by yourself, you might learn something! Yes, you might see couples or friends travelling together and think how nice that would be. I’ve been there. But who knows, they might be looking at you thinking how nice it would be to travel solo!

If you are starting to tire of your own company, then try and stay in a hostel and sit in the common room or kitchen- that’s a great way to start talking with like minded travellers. Also joining a tour group- even if its just a day tour is nice as you have people to share the experience with.

If you don’t feel like talking to people then enjoy your own company, go to the local food markets for dinner, or take a book to the restaurant. Even just sitting in your hostel and talking/skyping friends back home can make you feel a little less lonely.

But really, feeling lonely on the odd occasion won’t ruin your trip and you will forget all about it when your back home and have all these amazing pictures and experiences to share with your family and friends.

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making sugar cane in the Amazon rainforest — Booking day tours can help you feel less lonely when travelling solo

Will I make friends easily travelling solo?

As I said above, making friends can be easy when staying in hostels as there will be any other people in the same position as you. The best part about travelling solo is you get you decide how long you want to talk to people for. Some might like a conversation in the evenings or others might like to find a group of people to travel around with for several days or even weeks.

Solo travel brings about the unknown, you might not be expecting to meet anyone but happen to get talking to a friendly traveller and end up spending several days sightseeing together. Really there’s no need to worry about making friends. Whereas back home it might seem strange to just walk up to someone and start a conversation, its totally normal in hostels and a quick and easy way to make friends.

group tours in Australian outback — Booking a tour group is a great way to make friends

How do I take photos of myself when travelling alone?

If it’s your first time travelling alone, you might be wondering how do I get a good picture of myself if there’s no one else with me? Well there are several ways around this and you don’t have to be non-existent in photos from your trip- its nice to look back on pictures and you should absolutely be in them.

The main way is just to ask someone to take a photo of you, maybe you could suggest the same in return too. I like to try and find someone in the crowd that looks like they know how to take a somewhat decent picture- usually that person with the DSLR camera strapped around their neck.

It can be a little awkward when a stranger is taking your picture but you soon get used to asking. If you want a photo a certain way then just give them a brief description of how you want the image framed- I mean you’re never going to see them again so it’s worth asking.

Another great way to take photos of yourself travelling is on self-timer. I have done this on many occasions, especially at places where’s there’s not many others around. If you have a camera with a remote you can get an app so you can see how you look in the frame before you take the photos. I’ve been experimenting with the app ‘imaging edge mobile’ and I love it! And you have all the time you want to get the picture just how you want it.

And finally, there’s always the selfie stick!

first time travelling alone in bali — I took this picture with self timer 🙂

first time travelling alone in australia — Another female traveller took this photo- we each took photos for each other as both of us were travelling alone

What do I do at the airport?

I’m just thinking back to the first time I travelled alone here- I remember thinking “I’ve forgotten what to do when I get to the airport!”. If there’s anyone like me reading this then I’ll briefly explain. 😊

It’s best to check in online as the queues can be longer at the airport. Also it gives you a chance to pre book your seat (I must always have an aisle seat now after being trapped needing the bathroom for hours- but that’s another story). FYI- some airlines have free seat selection 24 hours before the flight so it can be worth waiting if you don’t want to pay to pick your seat.

Print your itinerary off or have it on your phone. Once at departures, find your flight number on the screen and it will tell you which area to check in. Even if you’ve printed your boarding pass you might still have to queue up if your airline doesn’t have self-check in.

Once you have checked in your bags and got your boarding pass, then make your way through to customs. This is where they will put your bags through the scanner so make sure you are prepared by having liquids under 100ml and in a clear plastic bag. You will need to take out your laptop so have that in an easy place.

Tip: Take an empty water bottle and refill it once through customs (there’s usually a drinking fountain by the toilets).

Once through you will be at duty free and all the shops. Give your self good time to get though so you can relax a bit before your flight- and remember to regularly check the screen to see when your flight is boarding in case it changes.

What do I do about travel visas?

Each country is different- some are less strict than others but it’s one of the first things you need to check once decided on a trip. This is because for some countries, getting a visa can be a lengthy process and could take a few months to arrive. You will need to check if you can get a visa upon arrival or if you need to get one before you enter the country.

Your countries government website should have all the information you need (or you could contact the relevant embassy). For anyone from the UK the gov site is super helpful and gives up to date safety advice also.

What do I do about travel vaccinations?

Just go to your local doctor. They will be able to tell you if you need any vaccinations for a particular country and if you are up to date with any previous vaccinations you’ve had.

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How do I book accommodation?

If you are on a budget, then Hostel World is a great site and has cheap shared dorm accommodation from all over the world.

My favourite place to book is booking.com as you don’t need to pay a deposit when you book, and many places can be cancelled pretty close to your stay date. It also shows accommodation from the cheapest hostels to the most expensive, so sometimes you might find that a private room is not too much more than a hostel dorm.

*For $16 USD (£13) off your booking, just click here!

You can also get good deals on hotels.com and trivago but the previous 2 are definitely my go to!

Tip: Check several sites as sometimes a hostel is shown as booked on one site but available on another- its worth looking around.

I usually book the first 2 nights accommodation, so I have time to figure out my plans. It can be better not to book too far ahead in case plans change- which they will do sometimes. If you are travelling for the first time, then you might feel better having the first week booked somewhere. If there’s a lot to do in the area, it’ll give you a good base to explore, find your bearings and get used to travelling solo.

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Where do I start?!

It can be hard to know where to begin before taking your fist trip abroad. FYI- if you sign up to my monthly newsletter below, you can receive a free guide on building the confidence to travel solo and how to get prepared for your trip.

First, you need to think about what type of trip you want, how long you want to spend and what time of year is good for that destination. Do a little online research into the prices of flights, accommodation, tours, activities, food, local transport, etc and figure out a rough budget.

Make sure you have enough money with a little extra for emergencies and start to plan a rough itinerary. Booking the first few nights is a good idea- most hostels you can book the day before so its fine to book last minute (just double check if it’s a busy time of year though, Christmas, local festivals, etc).

Then you need to figure out what activities you want to do and how long it will take you to get from place to place. After you know where you are going- get practical. Check if you need visas, vaccines, etc and if you need to buy anything for your trip.

Read up about the country you’re going too- how should you dress, any scams to be aware of, rules and cultural norms, etc. Knowing a bit about where you are going can really help.

How far in advance do I need to book?

It depends on where you are going and what you are doing. In Peru for example, if you are doing the Inca trail you will need to get your permits at least 3 months in advance. If going to Bhutan, you must book through a tour group. If you are thinking about any tour group, you may want to book a few months in advance.

If you’re just going alone then check if there are any events on that may mean places get booked up early. And check if it’s a busy time of year or school holidays, etc. If not, then usually you can book accommodation or local transport last minute. Generally, for international flights the earlier you book the cheaper (5 months prior is good). Domestic you can find good deals a month before.

Everywhere is different so look around- Skyscanner has a good tool called the ‘everywhere’ search, where you just type in ‘everywhere’ into the search and it will tell you about how much it is to travel anywhere in the world- you could find some interesting places here.

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Sheikh Zayed Mosque, Abu Dhabi: A Girl’s Guide to visiting (on a layover)

12/06/2019 No Comments

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Sheikh Zayed Mosque in Abu Dhabi is absolutely STUNNING. Within an easy 90 minute drive it is also easily accessible on a day trip from Dubai. Constructed using white marble, it holds a similar resemblance to the Taj Mahal in India and as soon as you catch sight of the Sheikh Zayed Mosque, you’ll get that “wow” moment.

Seeing as the mosque is so close to the airport it’s super convenient to visit on layover/ stopover (more on that below). The best part? It’s completely free! Allowing you to get a glimpse of the glistening capital of United Arab Emirates.

This solo female travellers guide to visiting Sheikh Zayed Mosque will give you tips on what to expect, what to wear and how to do it all whilst on a layover.

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Is Abu Dhabi safe for females travelling alone?

Yes, definitely. Abu Dhabi and Dubai are quite safe for solo female travellers and there are a lot of expats in both cities. I found the taxi drivers to be very friendly but also respectful and I felt perfectly safe getting into the taxi. Also the staff around the mosque very friendly and helpful and I have read many other reviews of female travellers feeling perfectly safe whilst travelling in the UAE.

I would say it always helps to be respectful with your dress and cover your knees and shoulders at least, to avoid unwanted attention. The mosque is extra strict in terms of dress but everywhere else is more relaxed.

How long does my layover need to be to visit Sheikh Zayed Mosque?

I had a stopover/ layover of 7 hours and found this the perfect amount of time. However I did get to the mosque 30 minutes before opening time due to my flight arriving early, so even with a 6 hour layover it’s definitely do-able.

Remember to factor in the time it takes to get to the mosque and the time you need to be back in the airport. This reduced my 7 hour stopover to 4 hours. If I was to do it again I would have gone with a longer stopover so I could see the Louvre as well but I just didn’t have time!

How do I leave the airport on a layover?

If you have connecting flights, when getting off the first flight you would usually continue to follow the signs for ‘connecting flights’. If you want to leave the airport on a layover then you will need to follow the signs for ‘arrivals/baggage claim’, and leave the airport.

Your checked bags should be going all the way to your final destination (do double check this!). This makes it easy as you can just walk out the airport with just your hand luggage.

When you return to the airport you will have to go back through security. You should already have your boarding pass for the second flight (if not you will have to check in again).

My return to the airport was really fast and I literally walked through within 15 minutes. This was at midday so it may have been a quiet time but generally it didn’t take long for me to exit or return to Abu Dhabi airport.

* Always allow for traffic (which I have read can get bad in Abu Dhabi) and make sure you get back to the airport in good time. If your second flight is international they will still recommended getting back 3 hours prior to departure.

How to get to the Sheikh Zayed Mosque in Abu Dhabi

From Abu Dhabi airport:

Taxi: This couldn’t be easier. As soon as you walk out from the airport you will see the taxi rank right in front of you. They charge an airport fee so I paid 75 AED (£16 or 20 USD) from the airport to the mosque.

On the way back I paid 45 AED (£9 or 12 USD) *prices from May 2019. All taxis are run on the meter so no need to bargain! Journey time is roughly 20 minutes.

Bus: This is a much longer journey (around 50 mins) but also super cheap at 4.5 AED (£1 or 1.2 USD). From Terminal 1 you can get the A1 bus to Al Rawdhah, which stops around a 30 minute walk from the mosque. You can also then change to the 051 bus from the Abu Dhabi Zayed Sports Stadium opposite. This bus will be 2 stops and will get you within a 10 minute walk of Sheikh Zayed Mosque.

From Dubai:

Dubai is only a 90 minute drive from Abu Dhabi so can be easily done on a day trip. To get a taxi from Dubai to Abu Dhabi it will cost roughly around 250 AED (£53 or 68 USD).

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What to wear to Sheikh Zayed Mosque in Abu Dhabi?

There is a very strict dress code for the mosque, particularly for women. Girls, you will need to have your hair, arms and legs covered. Only face, hands and feet can be showing. You also cannot wear anything transparent, tight or anything that shows the outline of your figure.

For most women they will direct you to a room where you’ll need to put on an abaya over your clothing. This is a very simple and quick process (if there are no queues). Find out more on the official site.

Men will need to have their shoulders and legs covered (no shorts).

More tips on solo female travel: First Time Travelling Alone? Your Questions Answered.

What’s the best time to visit Sheikh Zayed Mosque?

The mosque is open from 9am to 10pm, Saturday to Thursday, except Fridays, where the mosque opens from 4:30pm to 10pm (to allow for worship). During Ramadan it opens from 9am to 3pm and is closed altogether on Fridays.

*If you want to find out about the history of the mosque then check out the free guided tours here

For photographers I will say golden hour is best, although this may be a busy time. However the way the low sun lights up the mosque looks quite spectacular.

I went right bang on opening time at 9am and it was very quiet at this time but after an hour it was quite busy already. I would recommended getting there as the gates open and walking straight through into the mosque.

I stood around for a bit taking photos from the outside but if I’d have walked straight inside I would probably have had less people walking in the corridors. However there are several sections where you cannot enter, allowing for people-free photos at any time of day.

If you’re not a fan of the heat then early morning or late afternoon would be best- also Sheikh Zayed Mosque looks really cool at night so if you’ve got the time I would go back in the evening!

How long do I need for Sheikh Zayed Mosque in Abu Dhabi?

I would say 3 hours. It sounds a lot but there is so much to see, plus you will literally want to stop every 5 minutes to take a photo! There are also some well kept gardens outside the mosque to take a look at. If you are visiting at a busy time, allow for waiting to change into the abayas and to collect any bags from the cloakroom.

Sheikh Zayed Mosque, Abu Dhabi on a layov

Can I leave my bags anywhere?

Yes. There is an airport style security gate you need to walk through and they will tell you to put any big bags in the cloakroom. They give you a number badge to keep and give back when you’re finished visiting- much like how you would at a museum or art gallery.

I was there at opening so there wasn’t many people arrived yet but I found the process super easy and efficient. And it meant I didn’t have to take my heavy hand luggage bag around with me.

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Is there anywhere to eat close by?

Yes, there is a Coffee Club by the entrance (and by the looks of it they are also building more dining places, soon to come). The Coffee Club opens 30 minutes before the mosque opens so is a great place to grab a bite before exploring.

*During Ramadan it will still be open but will have a black sheet covering the entrance.

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My visit Abu Dhabi was soooo worth it- plus what a great way to take a break from 2 long flights! It was the perfect way to break up my journey- I just wish I had given myself longer as there’s so many other things to see in Abu Dhabi.

Visiting Sheikh Zayed Mosque as a solo female traveller felt fun and adventurous and just makes me wants to travel more in the United Arab Emirates. Have you been to the UAE? Tell me below!

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A Girl’s Guide to Marrakech, Morocco

08/05/2019 26 Comments

Buzzing with life, Marrakech exudes vibrancy, with the exotic smell of spices in the air to the hustle of the inner souks and varied aromas from the street stalls in the medina. With super cheap flights from London me and one of my girlfriends headed to this North African city for a 10 day girls adventure.

Here is a girl’s guide for things to do in Marrakech!

Is it safe for women to travel alone to Marrakech?

For groups of girls or solo female travellers, Marrakech is pretty safe to visit as long as you keep smart about things. The unwanted attention from men is something that may be off putting but as long as you take correct safety precautions, there’s no need to worry.

Also be cautious and aware of your surroundings. There are many scams in Marrakech so do your research and have a heads up of what to expect. Walk like you know where you’re going, dress modestly and don’t flash valuables around.

For more on how to stay safe as a solo female traveller read this: Solo female travel: How to stay safe on the road

Places to visit in Marrakech, Morocco

Stroll through Jemaa el-Fna, Marrakech

This is the main square in Marrakech and is used by both locals and tourists. Here you will find food stalls, story tellers, snake charmers, musicians and dancers. It comes alive after sunset and loads of food stalls open up.

Jemaa el fna at night — Jemaa el fna comes alive at night!

The food sellers will try and bring you to their stall, take pictures with you and are all really friendly (doing what they can to bring in the business!). Still it’s fun to talk to the locals and try the different street food available.

During the day there are many stalls selling the juiciest orange juice around, as well as ladies doing henna tattoos. Just make sure you get the brown henna (the black henna is not good). We got ours done by a lady behind one of the juice stalls- felt a bit dodgy at the time but it turned really good.

Jemaa el fna, Marrakech — Getting some henna

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Shop at the Medina of Marrakech

Just off from Jemaa el-Fna is the medina and the souks, full of everything from leather goods, clothing, carpets, shoes, spices and jewellery. It’s definitely geared up for tourists and much of the stuff is probably cheaply made but if you’re looking for some cool clothes to wear around Morocco, or for some souvenirs you can find some nice things here.

Be aware of the shop owners, they can sometimes be quite pushy trying to get you into their stall. If they ask you “do you want to buy something”, make sure you don’t lead them on buy saying “maybe or yes” as they will put the hard sell on you!

You could get lost for days here, there’s so many little nooks and crannies. Give yourself enough time to explore as there’s so much to see.

Admire the pretty Majorelle Garden’s

Although popular with tourists, this pretty garden created by French painter Jacques Majorelle is a calm away from the busy streets of Marrakech. French fashion designer Yves Saint Laurent bought the blue villa and the gardens and kept them open to the public, restoring them to former glory.

The gardens are a nice way to spend the morning and to take some time to chill out and admire the natural beauty of this place.

Day trip to the Ouzoud Waterfalls

One of my favourite things I did on this trip was visit the Ouzoud waterfalls. They exceeded my expectations and are spectacular when your standing down below. The Ouzoud falls are 110 metres high and you can see them from many different viewpoints.

Ouzoud Waterfalls, Marrakech

There were even people swimming in the bottom. On the same day tour they also took us to some smaller falls where we jumped in over the cascading water. A little scary at first but after a few times it was a lot of fun!

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Spend a day in the Altas Mountains and Berber villages

Berber village day tour, MarrakechBerber village day tour, Marrakech — In the Atlas Mountains

Another day tour from Marrakech, this one took us again to the Atlas mountains where we were guided around one of the local Berber villages, talking with the local children and meeting several camels too! (such funny animals).

Berber village day tour

We also took a break in the traditional Berber village where we enjoyed a cup of refreshing mint tea. It tasted so good in the heat and the mint tea in Morocco is so delicious.

Lunch by a pretty stream was really good, before heading to the waterfalls of Imlil (not as good as Ouzoud but still nice).

Hot mint tea is surprisingly refreshing in the heat

waterfalls of Imlil marrakech — Waterfalls of Imlil

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Enjoy Bahia Palace

Bahia Palace

A floor to be admired

Built in the late 19th century by Si Moussa, Bahia Palace is a beautiful historical site in Marrakech, Morocco. With it’s enchanting gardens to the colours, textures and patterns of its walls and floors, it’s a charming visit close to the city.

Just a 15 minute walk from Djemma el-Fna, it’s perfectly situated and easy to get to. The ceilings, floors, decor, walls are so intricate and colourful, as well as tranquil gardens to match.

Camels and Quad bikes in Beachside Essaouira

This was a super fun day trip from Marrakesh which took 3 hours by coach. Once at windy Essaouira town it instantly felt more relaxed from the city, not including many street sellers trying to convince us to buy their ‘happy cakes’.

market Essaouira, Morocco — Shopping in Essaouira, Morocco

After looking around the artsy medina section, we headed to the beach for a camel ride. Such a fun activity, especially when they make the camels run a bit and you’re bouncing around like crazy!

But the most fun I had at Essaouira was going on a quad bike tour. Me and my friends took it in turns to drive the quad bike up and over the sand dunes, where we got spectacular views of the beach and desert.

quad bikes, Essaouira, Morocco — So much fun!

beach Essaouira, Morocco — Beachside, Essaouira

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Wind down at a Moroccan Spa

There are so many spas in Marrakesh that cater to most budgets. We were on a pretty tight budget but managed to find a decent looking one. In our bikinis, the lady washed and gave us a full body scrub (pretty vigorously I might say!) and then hosed us down.

What to do in Marrakech Morocco. (4) — Winding down at the spa

It was actually an amusing experience as we were both in the small room together watching as she sprayed us with this powerful water. However my skin did feel amazingly soft afterwards so I guessed it worked!

Enjoy the Local Food

The traditional tajine- a stew like meal can be seen cooking everywhere you go and there’s no better place to try it than when in Morocco. Also give the street stalls a go in the main square- we tried to go to several of the stalls, where you sit at a long table along with everyone else. This would be a great opportunity to talk to other travellers if you are travelling solo.

The traditional Tajine

Trying some street food

See the Koutoubia Mosque

Lit up beautifully at night, the Koutoubia Mosque is the largest mosque in Marrakesh, Morocco. 5 times a day you will hear the call to prayer which is quite an atmospheric thing to experience in this cultural city. Try going at sunset for some great photography opportunities.

Dine at a Rooftop bar

rooftop bar Marrakech Morocco — Daytime cocktails, why not!

There are many rooftop bars in Marrakech and I happened to stumble across this beautiful one, tucked away in the medina. Enjoying a cocktail and some bread and olives, it was great to sit and watch the city from a viewpoint.

rooftop bar Marrakech Guide — Lunch away from the hassle

There was no one else there and the place was so calming, playing through some strange meditation type music but it just added to its charm and tranquillity.

If you are looking to go out to some bars and clubs, there are some in the city- the bigger ones will charge an entry fee though. We went to a cosy bar close to the new city and danced out in the open air. There are many cocktail bars around the city that cater to tourists.

Marrakech cocktail bar — Drinks at one of the cocktail bars

Where to stay in Marrakech?

Hostels are cheap in the city and are always in convenient locations. They are great for solo female travellers wanting to make friends and to find someone to walk around with.

Check out these hostels from £3-£14 (so cheap!)

I stayed in a cheap hotel in the new city, close to the plaza. Even though we had a big room and our own sitting room I wished I had booked a traditional raid. There are some absolute stunning raid’s in Marrakech.

Check out these riads from £23- £80

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Getting Around in Marrakech

The public transport isn’t great but luckily most things are walk-able distance or a cheap taxi ride away. For day trips out of the city, you can book these easily once there, at the tour shops around the Medina or from your accommodation.

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When to visit Marrakech?

Camel ride, morocco — Selfie on a camel 🙂

The peak season is from September to October and from March to May. These are warm months as opposed to July and August which are hot. December to February can be pretty chilly. Even in the peak times to temperature can drop off at night so bring something warmer for the evenings.

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Marrakech Morocco: 6 Solo Female Travel Mistakes

10/04/2019 25 Comments

Marrakech, Morocco is a fantastic city to explore, with so many rich cultures, food and experiences. As two girls travelling alone, me and my friend were unsure of how we would get treated as woman in a male dominated country. Although you may hear stories about the safety of Morocco I felt that it was reasonably safe for a female travelling alone. Obviously being safety aware and issuing common sense are suitable suggestions for Marrakesh, but really as long as you are taking proper safety measures, there’s no reason why you cant enjoy a girls trip to Morocco hassle free.

That being said there are definitely some things I would have done different or would have been more careful about. Sometimes it’s a good idea to read up about the things you shouldn’t do to be fully prepared. I hope this helps and doesn’t deter from wanting to visit as Marrakesh is such a lively city that I would completely recommenced visiting.

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Mistake 1. Getting Lost (and consequently scammed)

Before my trip to Marrakech I had read up about the various scams I might be faced with, yet I still got caught up in one! It’s so easy to get tricked, so here’s what happened to me so you know what to look out for! We were looking for the Marrakech medina and ended up getting lost somehow. We must have looked lost as well because a friendly old man came up to us with a big smile and offered to help.

He led the way to where he said the medina was (around the corner) but after walking around the corner there was nothing- “around the next corner” he says. Ok didn’t think too much of it. Around this corner he showed us a local mosque and started explaining about it. “ah crap”, at this point I had a weird feeling but it was hard to leave as all the streets looked so similar. Yet he still smiled and lead the way in such a friendly way it was hard to say no. He took us to his shop and offered us bread and tea. We accepted as not to appear rude but all the while I was thinking how we were going to get out of this.

Marrakech, Morococco — Being scammed- oh dear

Then he tried to sell us numerous carpets for hundreds of dollars and got annoyed when we said we had no money. We had to settle on bargaining for a bracelet just so they would let us leave. It was a little uncomfortable being in that position as we had no clue where we were. Luckily after over paying for cheap bracelets we walked out the shop and hopped into a taxi that happened to be passing, not before he asked if we had a present for him.

I was so angry I fell for it after having travelled a lot in the past and reading about that scam online! And I have no idea why I followed him even though I knew it wasn’t right, and why I accepted the bread and tea. These things happen but my advice would be to have a cautious attitude about the friendliness of strangers in Marrakech. Usually the locals will give you directions, etc and then ask for payment. Make sure you know exactly where you are going and have internet on your phone for gps signals.

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Mistake 2: Not Being Careful With Food in Marrakech, Morocco

Travelling to other countries means being able to try culture rich food and a new cuisine. I love trying the food from the markets and local places but that wasn’t the problem on this trip- or previous trips. It’s eating at western places that is sometimes worse. As they are less visited then the local cafes so the meat can sit there for longer. I got ill from a chicken burger just before a 3 hour long bus ride to Essaouira- not good!

Marrakech things to do. — The dreaded burger…

Mistake 3: Getting Scammed in a Marrakech Taxi

Another scam- and one that I didn’t fall for but perhaps one that I should have accepted. So I’m haggling for a taxi back to our hotel and we agreed on 15 dirham. I specifically double checked it was 15 before getting in. When we got to the plaza the taxi driver asked for 50 dirham. After my previous scam I was annoyed that this was happening again and I didn’t want to get cheated again.

I refused and said I would only pay what we agreed. He didn’t accept so we got out and walked off. He walked up after us and grabbed my 15 dirham, annoyed. A little bit of a scary moment, I know women do not really ‘chat back’ to men in this part of the world and wasn’t sure if that was the right thing to do. If I was travelling completely alone I might have just given him the 15 dirham. Sometimes you have to accept that it might be better to pay in this situation and accept it for what it is.

Jemaa el-Fnaa,Marrakech — Jemaa el-Fnaa, Marrakech

Mistake 4: Not picking a Hotel in Convenient Location

Our hotel, although in a good spot close the plaza in the new part of Marrakech city, we didn’t realise it was separated from the plaza by a dark ally. Especially after our taxi scam above this was a little daunting having to walk down a quiet street with no lights. So my tip here would be to double check the roads leading up to the hotel and how accessible they are. It may appear close to the centre but double check by phoning up your accommodation beforehand and asking.

Mistake 5: Not Wearing the Correct Head Scarf

So we went into the souks and market stalls and one of the vendors tied our scarves we had just purchased over our heads, showing us how it was done. We walked out the stall thinking how great we looked in our new scarves, little did we realised that this was only acceptable for the mountains. Several men came up to us and told us “no, take it off, this is how we wear it in the mountains not here”. So be careful how you wear a headscarf if that’s what you will do- ask the locals for the correct way to wear one. We wore the scarf the correct way for the last few days of our holiday and discovered we had no harassment from the local men.

Mistake 6: Not Covering Up Enough

I’m really big on covering up and respecting local cultures but I do feel I perhaps should have done more so in Marrakech. The local norm is for shoulders and legs to be covered, and while I did this on a lot of places we visited I could have definitely have covered up further. I guess seeing hundreds of others dressing in shorts, etc made me feel like it was more accepted and I think I should have researched more on Morocco beforehand.

I was under the impression that it might not have been so important as other places I have visited in the past and I do think if I had done some more research it would have minimised unwanted attention. That being said even when I was covered from head to toe, we still had a few comments thrown our way. There’s no getting past that, just try to ignore it for the most part. Next time I visit Marrakech I will definitely do my research more and find longer and looser clothing to cover up with.

Whilst travelling with a friend as opposed to solo I found myself becoming a little more confident and relaxed than I would have been otherwise. Next time I will be more conscious of my surroundings and aware of potential scams. As a woman as long as you are prepared and use your common sense then you will be putting yourself in much better position.

This post was designed to help you not make the same mistakes I did and to get an idea of potential situations you might face. Remember the scams I mentioned were petty scams as most of them are in Morocco. Even with these mistakes I made I had the best holiday with my friend and would thoroughly recommend visiting Marrakech, Morocco as a woman. There’s so much to see and do and a hugely different culture to explore- be prepared and you will have a fantastic time!

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How I Caught the Travel Bug (and how YOU can too)

06/03/2019 No Comments

Ever remember dreaming away and lusting after those gorgeous travel destinations you see in the glossy mags? Well that was me. Always day-dreaming about those far distant lands, never actually believing I’d be able to ever go there myself.

I remember as a teenager being desperate to go on a holiday aboard. Having never been on a plane until the age 17 in which I travelled to Spain on a family holiday, I longed to travel to more exotic locations. Never once thought I would end up travelling to these destinations. I thought you had to be mega rich and just assumed I’d not be able to afford to go to such places.

One day in year 13 a travel expert came to speak to our class about things we could do after finishing school. This is when the idea of a gap year before university first entered my head. The guy explained that some people choose to spend a year travelling after school, and so with 2 friends also interested, we went about deciding if and how we could do it.

I worked for several months to save up, also getting extra money by cleaning a friends garden and face painting at a local scouts fair. Any little jobs I could do, I did. My friends and I had decided to volunteer with Travellers Worldwide and after looking at different options, found an animal sanctuary in South Africa- all meals and accommodation included. None of us had travelled alone before so having everything organised in advance made us (and our parents) more at ease!

With excitement on the outside and more nerves on the inside we said goodbye to our parents and off we went. Of course we ran into a few obstacles. My friends luggage was so huge we had to open all our suitcases and transfer her things to spread the load. Oh and then we almost got scammed at Johannesburg airport when a guy in so called ‘uniform’ was requesting some kind of payment. Anyway, 3 plane rides later we and had arrived.

The air felt hot and tropical, sun and blue sky being out to greet us. We got picked up by the owner of the sanctuary, who’s accent was so strong we could barely understand him. Driving through the streets, past poorer areas was a strange sensation. Nothing I’d ever seen before, well only ever on TV anyway. I remember staring out the window in awe and soaking up this place so different from home. I was seeing the world with fresh and innocent eyes.

holding a baby lynx cat, south africa — Finding my feet in South Africa

There were around 10 other volunteers from various countries, already at the sanctuary. Friendships were formed quickly and we spent our days waking up early to feed the animals and bottle feed baby lynx cats. The rest of the day was spent cleaning out enclosures and building a new enclosure, so lots of digging and planting trees.

Volunteering at the animal sanctuary in south africa — Volunteering at the animal sanctuary in South Africa

I loved being out in the sun and working as a team. As a shy girl at heart it really brought me out my shell and allowed me to mix with a variety of people. We had a good amount of free time to spend in the pool and walk around the small game reserve attached to the sanctuary. Going for a run past zebra and springbok, whilst they sprinted away from you was pretty special.

The other volunteers

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Walking in the game park at sunset

My 2 days off each week were spent exploring the Garden Route, from surfing at Jeffrey’s Bay, to bungy jumping, paragliding and horse riding. So many new and exciting experiences were had in those 2 months. It was such a wonderful feeling making those memories alongside old friends and new.

views over jeffreys bay, south africa — Jeffrey’s Bay, South Africa

I can honestly say this was one of the happiest times I’ve experienced so far, from the sense of freedom, being around great people, living and working together in a beautiful setting. We saw gorgeous sunrises, sunny days, dramatic sunsets, intense thunderstorms (and the power cuts that went with it) and indulged in the beauty of where we were situated.

I loved working outside in the fresh air, sun on my face, interacting with the animals, it felt like I hadn’t a worry in the world and for the short time I was there, it felt like home. I didn’t want this feeling to end and knew I wanted to travel more.

jumping in the pool, south africa — Jumping in the pool straight from work

A sense of maturity and experience I had gained meant that going back home felt in some way disheartening. With my new found inspiration for travel I was determined to save up again and travel to new places. I wanted to see it all, discover foreign lands, explore the world. And explore the world I did.

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12 years on and my love for travel has not faded. People ask me “have you finished travelling yet?”, I mean….what total madness! Not sure I ever will, the world is HUGE and there will always be a new place to discover, so of course, the list is endless. And that gives me hope and anticipation for new adventures.

So what can you do to experience that travel bug?

Well the answer is simple- just go! Get out there in the world and discover everything. Don’t have anyone to go with? Go alone. Afraid to go alone? Be brave, do your research on where you’re going and connect with other travellers in the same position. Don’t have enough money? Work and save- give up on those everyday luxuries like that coffee on the way to work or that Friday night takeaway. I worked a minimum wage job in London so it is possible if you can be careful with your spending. Anything is possible.

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with monks students, Sri Lanka teaching — Teaching monks in Sri Lanka

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step” – Lao Tzu

The travel quote above is one of my favourites. How do you know what adventures are to be had until you take that first step? For me, I did it in baby steps. First I went with friends, then a tour group and then on my own. For some people the first step may be throwing themselves in the deep end and heading to India completely alone. You just have to do what’s best for you.

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How can I find a truly unique travel experience?

For a truly special and unique travel experience it mostly has to be unplanned. And sometimes it can be a really simple moment like sitting on a slow-boat in Asia with the wind in your hair, watching the world go by. Or stopping for a few moments in a tropical jungle and listing to the sounds of nature.

palm trees, Sri Lanka — Take time to soak in the setting

The most special moments I’ve had whilst solo travelling are the times I’ve gone off script and veered from my itinerary. Going with an open mind and saying yes to new adventures are sure ways to find moments you couldn’t have day-dreamed up.

Listening and talking with locals can open up different places to explore that may not be in the guide books. You may hear about a secret waterfall that only the locals can guide you to. Or they may speak of a local temple to visit and explain the best times to go there. They may even invite you into their home.

solo female travel cambodia — Staying with a local family in Cambodia

The most important thing is to get rid of any stereotypes or preconceptions you may have about a place. This could be things you’ve heard from friends or what you’ve read in the media. Because one persons perception of a place can be completely different to your own. I’ve had other backpackers tell me “don’t go there, it’s rubbish” but I’ve gone anyway and really enjoyed it.

Being a solo female traveller is easy in this scenario as you can decide for yourself what you do and when. Where to eat, where to stay, when to get up. There’s a sense of freedom that you just don’t get when travelling with someone else. It almost makes you more adventurous. You are willing to introduce yourself to others, to search for exciting adventures and to gain valuable confidence whilst doing so.

me in a quiet street in india — Discovering India

So ladies (and gents), I encourage you to seek new adventures, get off the beaten path, talk with locals and find moments that are special to you. Future you with thank yourself I’m sure.

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Things To Do In And Around Cusco, Peru

06/02/2019 No Comments

The cobbled streets of Cusco are gateway to the Sacred Valley and of course, the Inca Trail but it’s so much more than the starting point for trekking. Give yourself a few days here as there is a fair bit to do, including many adventure activities. The narrow, cobblestone streets of Cusco are lined with hiking shops, souvenir shops, art galleries and local markets.

The city, which has been named a world heritage site, is surrounded by mountains and Inca ruins, giving it an almost prehistoric feel. Most things are situated around the Plaza de Armas (the main square). Here are just a few things you can get up to in this astonishing and historical city.

Walk to Inca Ruins Overlooking the City

inca ruins Cusco, Peru — You can walk to these ruins

Sacsayhuamán is an Inca fortress and sits at an altitude of 3700 metres above sea level. You can actually walk to these ruins from the Plaza de Armas, taking around 30-40 minutes up a steep track. It’s hard to believe the intelligent engineering that the Incas thought up as these ruins were built without using mortar, yet they all just fit into each other.

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Just across from the ruins is Christo Blanco, a statue of Christ built in 1945 as a thank you gift from Palestinians that had taken refuge in Cusco. It towers over the city giving incredible panoramic views.

Cristo Blanco Cusco, Peru — Cristo Blanco

Take a Horse-riding Tour

There are so many different horseback tours available from half day to 4 days and the views you get along the way are incredible. I did a 3 hour tour and we went over beautiful countryside, to caves and some small ruins. All tours are easily booked with your accommodation or tour shops in town.

Cusco, Peru horseriding — With my small horse

It was so photogenic and a different way to explore surrounding Cusco. Groups are usually pretty small, I was just with another couple. It was so fun and felt great to have a bit of a canter after not being on a horse for years! They will cater to different experience levels so there’s something for everyone.

horse-riding tour Cusco, Peru — Stunning backdrop from horse-riding tour

Explore the Archaeological Ruins of Moray

These circular holed terraces are a pretty interesting site to visit, being different from the other ruins. It’s unknown why they were built into the ground but interestingly there is a temperature difference of 15°C from top to bottom.

I went as part of a day tour and the large group had to stand in a circle, holding hands and give thanks to Pachamama (Mother earth). You will see this blessing a lot in Peru.

Check out the Salt Mines

Salinas de Maras (salt mines) are around 30 miles out from Cusco and close to Moray. This is one for the photographers, with thousands of salt water pans carved into the mountain it’s a spectacular site. The views are fantastic and you can even buy some of the salt for a really cheap price.

The salt is gathered after the water has evaporated by the sun, and then is collected to sell on. These salt flats are so old they are said to have been erected before the Incas.

Hang Around the Plaza de Armas

The main square Cusco, Peru — Theres always events on in Cusco

There are always events going on in the main square. When I was visiting there was a big parade for the elections, with school kids, the police and army all marching past to the sounds of loud trumpets.

fireworks Cusco, Peru — Fireworks in the Plaza de Armas

They also had a big firework display one night with no apparent health and safety standards at all! Small kids were standing so close to the flimsy wooden frame that was firing off the fireworks. They were holding an umbrella to shield themselves- madness!

Get In Touch With You’re Arty Side

Cusco is very much an art and handicraft city, with stalls and markets selling anything from paintings, to ornaments, wool, sculptures and pots. Wander around the side streets and check out the little art shops, with many paintings of Machu Picchu.

Artists in the streets Cusco, Peru — Artists in the streets

Hope you enjoyed this post on Cusco, Peru. Apart from activities mentioned there are also so many more! you can rent out quad bikes, take a food tour, go zip lining, white water rafting or check out Rainbow Mountain. The list goes on!

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Why Tour Groups are Great for Solo Female Travel

31/10/2018 2 Comments

Deciding to go on a solo adventure as a woman can be daunting, particularly if you haven’t done much travelling before. When I decided I wanted to travel but couldn’t find anyone to go with, I felt a bit stuck at first and wasn’t sure to go alone. I’d never flown by myself before so didn’t really know how it all worked. This is when I decided to book an organised tour group. I’d only have to fly there and get to the hotel alone and then I’d be with other people. So off I went searching the many tour companies to find one that was right for me.

tour group eating on floor in india — Making friends can help you feel more comfortable away from home

I am very fond of G Adventures in particular as they always have good itineraries covering the main parts of the country. Plus they are relatively cheap and cater for different age groups and style of travel. This way, you can find a tour suited to your interests and be with other like-minded travellers. So what are the advantages of joining a tour group if you’re a solo female traveller?

You’re not alone

selfie in india — Making friends in a tour group 🙂

Being with a group might make you feel safer if you’re travelling by yourself. You get to meet people from all over the world and travel together, so unlikely to get as lonely or bored than if you were travelling solo. Simply having people to share memories with and chat about the day can be so uplifting.

The pressure is taken off

posing by tent, serengeti, tanzania — Booking on a tour is great to ease any loneliness

The tour group will organise everything for you itinerary wise, you don’t need to worry about finding a place to stay or booking trains or searching for somewhere good to eat. It’s all taken care of, giving you more time to enjoy the sights and culture. Plus they are there for you if any problems are encountered, like if you get unwell or there is a problem with you passport, etc.

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You can learn a lot from your tour guide

tour group by the bus in Tanzania — One of my favourite tour groups! Such funny and relaxed people.

The main tour guide is with you throughout and will have a lot of local knowledge about the country you’re visiting. It’s helpful to have someone on hand if you have a quick question and easy to learn about the local customs and culture from someone with experience. A lot of tours will usually have guided walks around the locals areas, describing the history, etc, so you may learn more than if you were just walking around by yourself.

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You will meet all kinds of people

tour group photo overlooking serengeti, tanzania — You will meet so many different people

Typically there will be at least 1 person (or everyone) in the group who you get on with very well, and being together day in day out, friendships are formed quickly, almost like there your little family for the week. You’ll interact with people of different ages, backgrounds and countries and its fascinating learning about new people and finding out about there lives. Being with each other every day means you’ll become comfortable around them and may end up forming lasting friendships.

So there are the advantages of booking a group tour for solo female travellers. Tour groups can be a lot of fun and you could meet other solo travellers who you decide to travel with after the tour has finished. Remember you don’t have to be on a tour group for the whole of your trip, booking a tour for a small leg of your journey means you’ll get the best of both worlds. Overall if you’re looking to meet people to travel together, whilst discovering and learning about a new country, then joining a tour is a great choice. If you are new to solo female travel then give this a try!

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A Solo Travellers Flying Survival Guide

25/10/2018 22 Comments

Time-consuming international flights with long layovers can be daunting for a solo traveller. Yep, travel can be boring sometimes and with no-one to travel with, even more boring! So we as solo travellers need to be prepared for such occasions. This is how I get by on long haul flights to make the journey a little less painful. Your solo flying survival guide…

Don’t Get to the Airport TOO Early

They say to arrive 3 hours before an international flight but unless it’s a peak time to fly (like Christmas) or an extremely busy airport then I say 2 hours before is ample. Then you won’t be waiting 2 hours in departures before you even board the plane.

Arrive to the Airport awake!

By this I mean get a good nights sleep the night before. If I have a big flight I like to be alert and on my game, as it will be down to me to make my flight. When you’re tired it’s so easy miss the flight call, or a gate change, etc.

Book the Right Seat

I always like to book an aisle seat now, after I got stuck by the window one time desperate for the bathroom whilst the people next to me were sleeping (another story). I also like to sit by the wing, I’m sure I read once that there’s less turbulence there. Also if you do have a short connection, book as close to the front as possible so you’re the first to get off the plane once landed. It really can make a difference having and extra 5-10 minutes to make your next flight.

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Where the Right Clothing

I find leggings over jeans is best as the button doesn’t dig into you, also loose clothing is good. Plus remember to wear layers as the temperature can go up and down when flying and it can get cold on the plane. Also, if you’re flying somewhere cold then make sure you have warm clothing with you for when you leave the airport! Same goes for arriving somewhere hot- make sure you are wearing airy and loose clothes or you have something to change into.

Pack Your Bag Right

Make sure you have easy reach to the things you want to take out your bag for the flight. It will save you having to get up and rummage through the overhead lockers during the flight. Also pack a few clothes and toiletries in your hand luggage in case your checked bag gets lost (enough to keeping you going for a couple of days).

Do Your Seat Exercises

To avoid feet swelling by keeping them moving (circling the feet and by doing simple leg raises). It really does help! Walking around and keeping hydrated (no alcohol I’m afraid) is a must if you want to feel somewhat human after landing! This makes me sound really boring but you will feel so much better after landing!

Bring Snacks and an Empty Water Bottle

Buying water and snacks at the airport as you may well be aware is incredibly expensive! It’s much better to buy the treats you want beforehand and fill up your water bottle once through customs. Too many snacks is better than none (personal opinion!).

Bring Entertainment

This goes without saying really. Music, movies, a reading book, a journal to write in or a puzzle book are great things to keep you occupied on long flights. Save yourself the boredom.

Adjust to the Time Difference

The plane will usually lower the lights at around the local evening time of the destination you’re headed to. You may feel super awake but try and sleep when you know it’s they’re night time so you will be in a better rhythm when you arrive.

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About Me: Full Story

01/10/2018 4 Comments

I remember looking in the travel magazines as a teenager with wanderlust, assuming I would never get the chance to see those places. They were just far off places to dream about. Something unattainable. Completely unrealistic. But I did get it. I did go to the places I’d always dreamed about- and I made it happen for myself. Hard work, lots of cut backs and saving here there and everywhere- but I did it! And I haven’t stopped solo travel since.

I was always interested in seeing those stunning destinations in magazines and on TV but I think the idea of travel first came into play after a talk at my school, aged around 17/18. This guy explained all the things we could do after sixth form college, one of them being to take a gap year. I hadn’t given it much thought until then, but the idea became ever more intriguing as he spoke about volunteering opportunities abroad.

Two of my friends were also interested and we decided we would all take a gap year and use those last few months of sixth form to save up. We started researching places to go and types of volunteering we could do. I’m not sure I actually believed it would happen at the time but as we started to save up our money the idea became more real.

To save up the cash I worked at my minimum wage job, cut back my spending, sold old clothes on eBay, did some gardening for a friends dad, and face painted at a summer fair. Anything for a little extra money, I did. We eventually had the funds and booked our trip to South Africa to volunteer on an animal sanctuary, hand-rearing rescued animals and building new enclosures for them.

I’d only been on a plane once before, with my parents, but having friends with me felt comfortable and exiting more than anything else. My two months in South Africa were some of the best. We had around 12 volunteers all living and working together and they became my family away from home. Some of my best memories were had here and I felt free and independent. Seeing new places, new people, jumping off the worlds highest bungy bridge, bottle feeding baby lynx cats, going for a morning run past a stampeding herd of zebra are just a handful of things that come to mind.

stroking a serval cat — Working on an animal santuary in South Africa.

I learnt to live away from home, take care of myself and deal with problems independently. Solo travel has a way to force you to talk to strangers, to see things from a different perspective and to re-invent yourself. I came back from that trip inspired. I wanted to travel again. After doing a 1 year art foundation I decided to go on to uni and get a bachelors degree in Fine Art. I was 2 years behind but there were people of many ages on my course- including a 70 year old woman!

graduation pic — Uni days studying for my Fine Art degree.

About halfway through uni, not being able to resist the travel urge for much longer, I booked a 4 week trip to South East Asia with GAdventures. All I had to do was fly to Bangkok alone and get to the hotel- then I would be with a tour group. It made me feel much more at ease knowing they would take care of the rest and I would have others to travel with.

Getting on the plane alone for the first time was daunting. I kept worrying that I’d forget how it works! But I did it. Arriving at Bangkok I carefully followed all the signs to the official taxi rank and took a pretty pricey taxi to my hotel. Staring out the cab window I wondered what had I got myself into, nervous but so excited and proud of myself for making this happen.

Angkor Wat, Cambodia

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That trip opened my eyes to the world of travel and culture and I was already planning my next trip before returning home. The following year I went back to Asia. This time alone. Completely alone. I loved it. I felt comfortable with the customs, rules and culture from being there previously and was completely free to do whatever I wanted. I volunteered for a short while at a school in Cambodia and lived with a local family. It was nice to see a less touristy side and to come home each day to the friendly neighbours and their children, all sitting outside together and chatting.

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cambodia thailand border crossing — Back to Cambodia- this time on my own.

I continued to become braver and more adventurous in my travels, going to Peru & Bolivia alone with just the first 3 nights booked. I would never have seen myself doing this in the beginning but the more I solo travel the more I learn. I picked up advice from other travellers and learnt from my own mistakes.

Hiking the Inca Trail in Peru.

Getting braver, travelling to Bolivia and Peru alone!

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When you’re travelling you’re constantly learning, seeking out new places, cultures and growing as a person. And that never stops.

Your perspective and priorities will change as you grow but that’s the beauty of it. Travel always holds something new, something exciting and something unexpected.

After Peru and Bolivia I felt a new sense of confidence and have since travelled to some amazing places, including India, South Korea, Sri Lanka, Tanzania, Zanzibar, Bali, Namibia and many more. I like the way travel changes over time and your experiences will differ with age. I want to look back on my life and say “I’ve been able to travel the world and see these incredible places, cultures and people”.

holding hands with maasai women in tanzania — Finding new cultures in Tanzania.

Making memories like these last a lifetime and I want to say I’ve really seen the world and experienced many things. What I will say is that if are looking to travel but not sure if its worth it then there’s only one way to find out! You will soon know if it’s for you or not.

Travel has done so much for me and it can do so much for you also. I hope I can inspire you to take the adventures you’ve always dreamed about. If you like the blog, please share along any posts to others you think will benefit 🙂

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Solo female travel: How to stay safe on the road

20/09/2018 3 Comments

As a female travelling solo, the issue of safety may be a concern or a worry you have before taking a solo trip. I for sure know some people who wouldn’t travel to a certain place, just simply because they would be a woman alone. I think it’s right to be a little concerned, especially if you’re headed to a country where women don’t usually travel alone, etc, BUT I don’t think it should stop you completely. Showing concern shows that you are aware of potential dangers, which is a far better place to be then say, naively wandering around a conservative country in a revealing pair of shorts.

Using common sense, being pro-active and reading up about the country in advance so you know what to expect is a far better approach. There are dangerous parts of any place or country and if you let that stop you, you would never travel anywhere. So here are a list of tips I have picked up over the years that I hope will help and leave you feeling much more self-assured and ready to take the solo plunge!

Walk with Confidence

solo female traveller standing on graffiti wall — Walk like you own it!

Simply walking like you know where you’re going can be a total game changer in not getting harassed multiple times down a street. It also makes you look more sure of yourself and in control. If you’re wandering around looking lost at a map or appearing very nervous then it can make you an easier target. Even though you may feel incredibly vulnerable remember to put that poker face on and act confident.

If you are stuck then going into a local shop or cafe to ask for directions is a far better option then standing on the street looking lost. If you are in a more Western place where you can freely walk around with a smartphone, then I would advise to download a transport map onto your phone and use that if you are lost. Looking at a paper map can make you stand out as a tourist and thieves know that tourists may be carrying expensive items like a camera or cash on them.

Be Alert in a New City

photo with local indian woman — Observe the locals

Once you get to a new place it’s a good idea to take a look around and watch how things work and how people do things. Observe the locals and in particular the local women, how do they dress? How do they behave? Do they walk around after dark? Being vigilant and observing these things give you an indication on the local customs and rules so you can better judge situations.

Respect Local Customs

posing in front of a temple in thailand — Remember to cover up at religious sites

In some countries woman can be seen ‘less dominant’ or ‘submissive’ to men. They may not be able to go out after dark or need a male chaperone when they go out, or it might be unusual for a woman to work or raise her voice to a man, etc. In a lot of countries women need to cover up, not wearing tight or revealing clothing. Although it may not be the same as your culture it would be wise to follow their rules to some extent. Mainly out of respect as a visitor but it can also be a matter of safety. If you were to go out in revealing clothes where it is not the norm, you may get unwanted attention. It can be much safer to cover up.

Create a ‘Boyfriend’

Ok so you are walking down a street on your own and you start to get harassed with the most frequently asked question ‘no boyfriend?!’ (as if we need one!). You may say you don’t have a boyfriend and are travelling solo, which I have said a few times much to the surprise of the local men (a woman travelling alone can be unheard of in some places). However this can just lead to further harassment so it can be simpler to say ‘oh yes, he’s waiting for me round the corner’, you never know, it might just throw them.

Sometimes (just sometimes) they will back off when you tell them you’re off to meet your boyfriend or that you’re married. I also read somewhere about wearing a fake wedding ring which seems like it could be a good idea! I hate the fact that we may have to go to these lengths as women but if it helps to ease off some harassment then why not?

More on how to handle harassment: Being harassed: How to politely say NO

Make Friends

selfie on beach in new zealand — Making friends can help you feel safer

Staying in hostels gives the advantage of meeting like-minded travellers. I meet so many girls who are also travelling solo and it feels like you share an automatic bond like ‘you’re in it together’. Other backpackers, especially those travelling on their own are usually more open to making friends and exploring a new place together. It’s normally pretty easy to make friends in a hostel and just having someone else to hang around with can really pick you up and feel much safer in a new place. You can also gain great advice from others about which places to avoid, or certain scams they may have experienced, and just general advice that will become invaluable to you.

Be Prepared

standing in desert, namibia — Get prepared in advance- it will save you time later

There’s a great saying ‘be prepared or prepare to fail’. Being prepared in safety matters can help put your mind at ease. Having a ‘plan b’ in case something goes wrong. It’s a good idea to have a back up or photocopy of all personal documents and some extra cash stored in a separate place to your handbag. Enough cash so that if your handbag gets stolen, you have enough to get you by for 3 days or so (enough time for someone to send you over some emergency money).

Also being prepared with medications and a simple first aid kit can help you to feel in control for any situation. It’s a good idea to know the countries emergency numbers, plus any international numbers for your bank, immigration, etc in case of an emergency. This will help you feel much less panicked and ready to sort out any problem.

Research Your Destination

Doing a bit of research before you leave can make you aware in advance of the destination you are heading to. How do I need to dress? Are there any local scams to be aware of? Is it safe to walk around at night? Finding out this information beforehand can be invaluable and help you to see when scams are coming. Talking to other travellers on Facebook groups like Girls Love Travel is a great way to get real advice from people who have already been.

Know the Area

selfie on thai street — Know where you’re going

When arriving at your hostel, its a good idea to ask at reception for a map and for them to point out the best areas to visit and the areas to avoid. Usually the people working there will know the area well and be able to tell you if a certain place is unsafe or at what time of night it starts to get unsafe. You can also get great tips from the reception staff about local areas or things to do that you might not have known about, so its worth asking them.

Update Friends and Family

Letting people know your itinerary of where you are whilst travelling can be helpful- just in case something goes wrong. If you can, let someone know where you are going when you are there- maybe someone in your dorm room or probably a better bet- the hostel reception. That way if something happens they will know you should have been back and be able to alert the authorities. This is obviously the worst case scenario but by doing these small steps, it just might make a difference if anything goes wrong. You have to cover your back.

Know Your Hostel Address

I will always pick up a hostel card with their address and phone number on it. Then if I get lost I can show this to a taxi driver to get back safely. If you are in a place where they don’t speak much English, find someone who can write down the address in the local language. You will feel much less worried about getting lost if you know you can show the address to a local, who can point you in the right direction.

Don’t Drink Too Much

namibia, sitting in a dead tree — Have your own plan- just in case!

If you are with good friends or people you trust then having a few drinks should be harmless, as long as your not all blind drunk! But if you are travelling alone and are maybe heading out with someone you’ve just met from your hostel, I wouldn’t completely rely on them. Some people you can get a good vibe and instant from but you can’t always rely on just that. Have a plan to get home. Your new friend may end up with someone else and leaving you, so have your own plan. Know that you can get home, even if you find yourself alone.

Have your phone charged and also write copies of taxi companies and your hostel number and address (in case your phone dies). Know the route to get home and what time local transport will stop running. Doing this will mean you don’t end up stuck and not knowing where to go. And knowing that you can get home safely will make you feel much more relaxed to enjoy your evening.

There’s No Price on Safety

If you are in a situation that doesn’t feel right- it’s probably not. So get out of there. Even if that means spending money on an expensive cab then do it. It might have turned out to be nothing but if you don’t feel comfortable, spending money to get yourself to somewhere you feel safe is completely worth it. Trust your instincts.

Lock Up Your Stuff!

Knowing you have your valuables safe and locked up in your hostel can take a worry off your mind. Most hostels will have huge lockers- enough to fit your big bag in so take some padlocks along with you. If the hostel doesn’t have a locker then you could ask if they have a locked safe at reception or take them with you. If you’re not comfortable carrying around valuables then buy a backpack protector so your stuff is safe outside of a locker.

Blend In

Solo female travel: How to stay safe on the road — Hide the expensive items

Keeping a lower profile can help you not stick out as much as a tourist. Try to get out your camera only long enough for you to get your shot. Wandering around with an expensive camera around your neck screams out that you have expensive gear on your person. Also if it doesn’t feel safe to take out your camera or phone then don’t- its just not worth it. Wait for the right time to get the shot you want and don’t make it obvious you are carrying around expensive items.

Pre Book Taxis

If I can, I will ask the hostel for recommend trusted taxi companies or ask them to book me a taxi to wherever I’m going. I usually book accommodation close to a bus or train station but if its night time then I may grab a taxi to take me to the station. It’s much safer than hailing one off the street. If you do do that then make sure they put the meter on or you bargain for a price before you get in.

Get Airport Ready

selfie at vietnam airport — Know your connections and airport transfers

If possible its better to arrive to a place during the day but of course flights arriving late will be cheaper. If this is the case and your plane gets in well after dark then do some research. How will you get from the airport and is it safe to do so late at night? Sometimes arriving late to a destination with all your luggage in tow, wandering around, not quite sure where to go, can make you stand out. There may be many taxi drivers outside ready to run up to you offering their ‘best’ price.

Make sure you know the best way to get to your accommodation and the average price for transport. If you are arriving late at night it might make you feel better to pre book a transfer. I’m glad I booked a transfer beforehand when arriving to Delhi, India at 11pm! Other tips for airports is make sure you know your connections, where you need to pick up your bags, whether you need a transit visa and how long it will take to get to your gate. Get in control.

Last Step- Relax!

If it’s your first time travelling of course you will be nervous- it’s that fight or flight response. Being cautious is good as you will be more aware of your surroundings. But let that feeling drive you as opposed to running away. Anything can be daunting the first time round but the more you do it the more empowering it gets. Follow these safety tips and you will for sure be much more prepared physically and mentally for anything travel throws at you.

Remember that if something goes wrong, you have a plan of action to deal with it- you are in control. Solo travel is a wonderful thing that you can be proud of. Let it empower you and drive you. As long as you are sensible and prepared then just relax. By preparing in advance you are taking a weight off your shoulders that doesn’t need to be there when you’re on the road. Enjoy your travels, take it all in and remember you got this!

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How to Spend 7 days in NYC

22/08/2018 20 Comments

New York City is full of activities and attractions from the incredible shopping, numerous art galleries and fantastic Broadway shows. Everything in this 24 hour city is open late which makes it easy to create a jammed packed itinerary if short on time.

I spent 11 days here but rushed around so much in the first half that I didn’t leave much else do! I would have preferred spending more time in the galleries than I did. So I have created a 7 day itinerary for you, fitting in the best of NYC. This will be quite busy but definitely do-able and if you have more time then it’s easy to spend longer on activities or just add in more attractions to the mix!

Day 1- Central Park, The Met, Shopping

fall trees Central Park, nyc — Pretty Central Park

Have a nice lie in after a long flight, then grab some brekkie at coffee or bagel shop before taking a stroll around Central Park. The park is HUGE so you won’t be able to fit it all in one day but you can walk through it to the find The Metropolitan Museum of Art. This is also huge so pick a couple of sections instead of trying to do the whole thing. You literally can spend the whole day here!

Metropolitan Museum of Art

Michelangelo sculpture at the Metropolitan museum of art

If your still raring to go then hit some of the shops in Midtown. Columbus circle is also great for shopping and right by the south end of the park.

Day 2- Top of the Rock, Times Sq, High line, Circle Line

Top of the rock, New York — Great views at Top of the rock

Try and get to the Rockefeller Center at 8am (opening time). I would seriously recommend going at this time as I pretty much just walked straight up. At busy times the queue can be very long. The morning light is amazing over the city and it was definitely a favourite attraction of mine. You get great views overlooking the Empire state and Central Park.

Since you will be near to Times Square, you may as well see what all the fuss is about. It is incredibly busy with tourists everywhere but it does kinda take your breath away. I was just standing there moving around in circles at all the lights and displays in every direction.

Grab some lunch (any cuisine you like!) and then take the subway to The High Line. This is a walkway on an old railway line in the Chelsea area. It’s a different way to see the city and perfect for photographers. If you start The High line at the Whitney Museum of Art and walk North then you can carry on walking along the Hudson river to the circle line pier.

the High Line, new york — Walk the High Line

Here you can take the sunset cruise on the circle line and see NYC by day and night. It will also go quite close to the statue of liberty and around the downtown end of Manhattan for those amazing cityscape views looking back at the city.

circle line cruise, NYC — See the city from another angle on the circle Line Cruise

Day 3- Shopping, Moma and Broadway

Time to shop! (yay). Dedicate some time for shopping, there are so many shopping areas to choose from like the designer shops on 5th Avenue to Chelsea’s trendy boutiques or discount designer stores like Century 21 near Columbus Circle. Shops are open very late so you literally can shop til you drop! If you’re here at Christmas time be sure to check out the window displays in the department stores.

New York Christmas window displays — NYC shopping at Christmas!

If you need a break from shopping then head to the Museum of Modern Art (Moma) which is just off of 5th Avenue. They have some famous paintings here so it’s worth a visit. Moma is also free on Fridays 4-8pm but gets very busy.

Everyone wants the same photo at MOMA

Exploring some galleries…

In the evening head to a Broadway show. ‘TKTS’ booths sell discount tickets for the same day if you don’t mind waiting in line. I booked online for the Christmas Spectacular and it was amazing. Christmas in New York is kinda magical.

Christmas Spectacular, NYC — The Christmas Spectacular was amazing!

Day 4- Museums and Empire State

If you’re into art then New York perfect for you. Check out the Museum of Natural History situated in the Upper West side. It’s one of the oldest museums in the worlds and is full of interesting and fun exhibits. Then you can explore some more of the park whilst walking over to the Upper east side (takes around 30 minutes from the West).

Explore the history museum

Stroll through the park

The Upper East side is where the Guggenheim Museum is situated. The quirky museum is interesting in architecture but I found the art a little too ‘contemporary’ for my liking. A short walk up 5th Avenue will take you to the Museum of the City of New York. This is quite small but worthwhile to find out about the people who make up the city and the struggles citizens have had throughout the years. Some exhibitions are permanent and some are special exhibitions. There is a ‘suggested donation’ as with a lot of museums so you really pay what you like or can afford.

After an arty day, have a big dinner in the city or relax in a bar before heading up to the Empire state building. After 10pm it gets quiet- I just went straight up without queuing. Even though it might be a late time it will save you waiting hours in the queue and you also get to see the city at night. You can see the bright lights of Times Square even from way up at the top.

view from empire state building at night — The lights of Times Square

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Day 5- Walk the Bridge to Brooklyn

Walking the Brooklyn Bridge was one of my favourite activities- and its free! I would suggest getting here at 8/9am for fewer crowds and to make the most of the day. I left a bit late so at 11am it was already busy. You can get some incredible shots of the bridge and looking back at Manhattan. Once over the other side you can explore cool and hip areas likes Dumbo and Williamsburg. Brooklyn Bridge Park offers fantastic views back at the city.

Brooklyn Bridge seen through allyway — Explore the streets of Brooklyn

Brooklyn has a grungy but trendy feel about it and is much more relaxed than Manhattan. Take a stroll around Brooklyn Museum and the botanical gardens. Or for something a bit different head to the New York Transit Museum, set in an old subway station. You can walk through old subway trains form the 1920’s upwards.

An old subway carriage at the Museum of Transport

If you’re here for Christmas then check out Brooklyn’s Christmas lights in Dyker Heights. Local residents with huge houses put on massive light displays every year. The area with most lights is from 83rd to 86th Street and in between 11th Avenue to 13th Avenue, although I saw some really pretty houses on the way so it’s worth wandering around a bit. The area felt very safe and I felt fine walking that late by myself.

Dyker heights christmas lights — If you’re visiting at Xmas, check out the Dyker Heights lights

Day 6- Harlem, 9/11 Memorial and Chelsea Galleries

Aim for an early start and head to the African-American suburb of Harlem. I was a little nervous going here alone as it sometimes gets a bad rep but it was mostly ok, although I did get a few stares. I stuck to the main street (125th st) and wandered around a few side streets to get some shots of the typical brownstone houses. Although the main areas are pretty safe I do think I would have felt more comfortable (being a solo female) with a walking tour.

Photograph the brownstone houses of Harlem

Grab an early lunch to make time for a visit to the 9/11 Memorial and Museum. This is quite upsetting walking around and hearing the stories from the people who witnessed this day. I actually spent around 3 hours here as there is a lot read and watch. The atmosphere is very calm and almost silent- a humbling visit.

A sobering visit at the 9/11 Memorial Museum

9/11 Memorial

Find a cafe for a tea or coffee and a little pick me up and then spend the afternoon in the nearby artsy area of Chelsea. From 18th-25th streets you will find small galleries lined alone each street and they are all free! Sometimes the work you will find here is better than that in the bigger galleries. Just wander up and down the block and head into any gallery that takes your fancy.

Day 7- Hop on Bus, Downtown and Bryant Park

The Big Bus tours are great to get around and see the city from a different perspective. Hop on the downtown tour and head to Bryant park. At Christmas they have a winter village and an outdoor ice rink. Then hop back on the bus to explore the Flatiron building or Chinatown. This would be a great place to stop for a cheap lunch.

Chinatown NYC — Grab some cheap eats in Chinatown

Then jump off the bus at Wall St, the heart of the Financial district. Everyone wants a photo with ‘the Charging Bull’ so to save waiting in line I would get there early. Then you can wander down to Battery Park. Sit, relax and enjoy views of the Statue of Liberty in the distance.

The Charging Bull, nyc — The Charging Bull

So there we have a weeks worth of things to do in New York. It was quite art focused I know but there are many activities to do instead if that’s not your thing. You can hire out cycles, go on a neighbourhood walking tour or a food and gospel tour in Harlem, visit Madame Tussauds, or Staten Island Zoo. The list is endless!

How do I get to Manhattan from JFK Airport?

Taxis are expensive and the shuttle buses are time consuming. I would recommend using the AirTrain. This is a cheap and efficient option and I found it pretty easy to navigate. Take the AirTrain from JFK to Jamacia station then change to the E train all the way into Midtown, Manhattan.

How Do I Get Around?

Definitely buy the 7 day unlimited Metro card, which can be bought just before getting on the AirTrain. This will give you unlimited rides on the subway and buses and at $32 (as of 2018) it’s great value for money. You will soon get used to using the subway its not as hard as first appearances might suggest.

Where do I stay?

There are several hostels in Manhattan and many in Brooklyn if you don’t mind the 40 minute commute, it will be slightly cheaper. That goes for Airbnb as well. I managed to find a good deal, situated in the Upper West side, on 73rd St. I found this a perfect location and right by the park! Hotels are everywhere from budget to ridiculously expensive.

How Much Should I Budget?

Obviously a hard question to answer as it depends on how much you will spend on shopping, food, etc. I roughly spent around £1300 but I was there for 11 nights. That included around £470 for my Airbnb, £140 for the explorer pass, £300 on shopping, £200 on food, £50 on extra activities, £70 for a show and £35 on transport. It will be easy to spend much less or much more depending on how crazy you go!

Tip: The city explorer pass is a great way to save on attractions. The New York pass is expensive and only worthwhile if you’re smashing out the activities everyday. The explorer pass allows you to pick from 3, 4, 5, 7, or 10 attractions.

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5 Adventurous Countries Solo Female Travel

15/08/2018 4 Comments

Looking for a challenge? After my article on 5 Destinations for the First Time Traveller I decided to write a second one for more adventurous or bolder destinations. These countries would suit a first time traveller who feels quite confident about going it alone or perhaps someone with previous solo experience, looking to push themselves a bit more. I’m not saying these are super hard places to travel to but they may be less touristy or ‘off the beaten track’ or perhaps English might not be as wildly spoken or displayed at train stations, etc. These countries are all fantastic places to visit with varied landscapes and lots of culture.

Peru

Good because: spectacular scenery, cheap, easy transportation

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With every climate from mountains, desert, ocean and rainforests, Peru is a stunning country and the landscapes will truly take your breath away. I found it surprisingly less scary than I had built up in my mind. Many people told me not to go whilst relating all the horror stories they had heard on the news, etc. I never felt unsafe here and found it easy to travel around the country. The bus company Cruz del Sur is fabulous and I would recommend using that over a public bus as they can sometimes drive dangerously. Asking hostel staff which public transport would be safe to use is a good idea. It’s also a cheap place to travel with adventurous foods to try such as guinea pig, if you’re brave enough!

Bolivia

Good because: amazing landscapes, cheap, good hostels

Colourful waters, Laguna Colorada, bolivia — Laguna Colorada, Bolivia

Bolivia is another country with rugged, spectacular and diverse scenery. A popular tour is the 3 day 4×4 tour, over the Bolivian salt flats and surrounding landscape. The salt flats are reason alone to visit here. Bolivia is also slightly cheaper if you’re looking do a rainforest tour, as opposed to neighbouring country Peru. Transport is not quite as good quality as Peru but long bus rides are definitely worth it as the landscape is pretty amazing (plus they’re super cheap). Although they may not have good English, the locals here are very welcoming and there’s some great friendly hostels. It’s always easy to find a travel buddy if wanted.

Tanzania

Good because: incredible wildlife, cultural, friendly locals

with massai women, tanzania — Discovering a different culture in Tanzania

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There is something special about Africa and I’m sure Tanzania will not disappoint. I travelled with a tour group to the Serengeti and then to Zanzibar, with the second part of my trip situated in the capital city of Arusha. This is where I volunteered with children at an orphanage. The safari was incredible, sleeping in a tent under the stars and waking to beautiful sunrises, whilst the volunteering threw me into the local streets and hustle and bustle of the city. It can seem intimidating at first but street sellers are generally just curious and want to chat. If you’re looking for great adventures but also to be thrown into local life, talking with friendly locals, learning how they live, then Tanzania is for you.

India

Good because: energetic, cultural, beautiful attractions

Chatting with local women — Chatting with the local women, India

me outside taj mahal — The Taj Mahal did not disappoint!

I travelled to India with a tour group as I felt more comfortable that way but hear of many women travelling alone there with no problems. It’s a country where as a solo female, it will be best to keep yourself covered and travel during the day but I see no reason why you shouldn’t go alone, it’s just down to how confident you feel. Although sometimes hard to book, the sleeper trains are very good, as well as the English of most locals. There are numerous hostels around so ask other travellers for advice as you go, or make friends and travel together. This country of ‘no rules’ has some beautiful attractions to visit and by simply just soaking up the way of life, you’ll unlikely get bored. India is a crazy, loud, colourful, aromatic, cultural country, that will leave you feeling drained but fulfilled!

Sri Lanka

Good because: yummy food, relaxed, beautiful countryside

storming coming in at Sri Lankan beach — Sri Lankan beach

I would describe Sri Lanka as a mix of India and Thailand, with a calmer feel and friendlier, more relaxed locals than India. Travelling as a woman I would suggest to be careful at night but during the day found it pretty safe. The beaches down South are gorgeous and the rainforest up North is full of tea plantations and cultural dance shows. There are also mountains for day hikes that leave you with stunning views from the top. Food is delicious and transport is prettygood but it’s easier to book a taxi if there is a group of you, as it can sometimes work out cheaper or the same than public transport. Sri Lanka has many things to see from, wildlife, temples, rainforests, mountains, fishing villages and cities. The scenery is pretty magical and with it being a small country, you’ll never have to travel for too long, leaving you more time to soak up the beauty of this place.

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Assumptions Travellers Hate

08/08/2018 2 Comments

I’m sure most other travellers will know exactly what’s coming when I say ‘assumptions travellers hate’. Yep, its the classic “when are you going to get into the real world?”, “you cant travel forever”, “sounds like you’re running away from your problems”. ENOUGH! We are not running away! We are running into something that excites us, motivates us and gives us something we can barley even explain to the outside world. They just don’t get it. How can you explain something you cant understand yourself. How do you explain a feeling, an emotion?

Because, that’s what travel is to me. It’s how it makes me feel. Something so incredibly hard to explain. If you are an avid traveller too, you will know this feeling. It’s that smile that creeps across your face when the sunlight weaves it’s way through the trees in that perfect orange glow. It’s that warmth you feel when you are welcomed into a new culture. And it’s the anticipation of arriving to a new place and wondering what your journey will become. This is what draws me in time and time again.

However I feel I’m always having to defend myself and my values and explain why I do what I do. These are some of the most common misconceptions:

When are you going to stop travelling and get real?

Get real? What does that even mean?! You mean when am I going to get a 9-5 job, stare at the same 4 walls everyday, come home, watch tv and go to bed- day in day out. Is that normal? Does doing the above things mean you have made it in life, have a good quality of life and are happy? Is that what we must strive to be? Anyone doing anything other that that is strange and not conforming. Why do we need to be in one place, one office, with a continuous routine to be accepted as ‘normal’?

Maybe I’m not ready to live that life. I don’t want to be sitting at home or work imagining all the things I will do one day, until I realise that suddenly I’m 80 years old and one day has since long passed. While I’m young, have the freedom and little commitments then why not?! This is the perfect time before starting a family or career and focusing on other commitments.

I’ve been told before that I’m not living reality. Well what makes reality- a boring routine day in day out? I’m sure there can be more than one reality- it may be different from the majority of people but does that make it better or worse. No, it’s what’s right for you. One day maybe the 9-5 thing will be my ‘reality’. Maybe not. I don’t think one is better than the other. This is how I’m choosing to live my life and that’s fine for me, so why is it an issue for people? I’m sacificing a career over having little money but being able to travel. Others may have to career but are not able to take long breaks from work. Its a choice and this is my choice.

Are you running away from your problems?

Huh! Every time, someone has to ask it! I’ve been asked this question or it’s been assumed so many times now its just annoying. Travel in itself is a form of escapism, agreed. You’re a million miles from home yes, but that does not mean that’s the sole reason I choose to travel. I’m not running away from problems and as I think any traveller will tell you- problems will follow you. If something is on your mind at home then it probably will be once you hit the road. There are more distractions when you’re travelling but that same worry/problem will linger. I mean solo travelling is a great way to sit back and reflect on your life, figure out any issues and generally have a good overview of what you would like to change (if anything). This is not the same as running away.

I don’t travel to fix my problems- I travel because I love it. There’s no reason bigger than that. Its just me.

Are you ever going to settle down?

Yes of course! Ii would be great to have a nice home and start a family and I wonder why people would assume otherwise. I was being asked this question in my mid- twenties though. I mean…seriously, again with the ‘norms’. Just because I’m travelling a lot now does not mean I will be to this extent for the rest of my life.

Yes, travel will always be a part of my life but that doesn’t mean that I don’t want children and to settle down. I would love that one day but it seems like there’s another rule that after the age of 25 you need to suddenly come home, get a ‘real job’ and buy a house! If you do anything different your abnormal or rebelling. So yes, I do want to settle but when I’m ready to do so.

Are you travelling just for a good Instagram photo?

Oh my. Where do I begin with this one. Firstly I’m not travelling to put up photos on social media, to show off or to get as many likes as possible. I’m travelling for myself. My social media photos are just a product of my accomplishment that I want to share. They are my life and I am proud of them.

Getting into the travel bogging world of course I’m starting to plan my pictures to take images for blog posts I will be working on but this is not the actual reason I travel. Its part of my travelling that I do for my website. Sometimes I see a place in a magazine and think ‘I would love that photo’ – it does not mean I’m going there solely to ‘get a photo’ – it’s the journey along the way and seeing a new place that’s the draw. The photo is something to show where I have been.

I love photography, I’m an amateur but I just take photos of everything when I travel and love looking back at past photos and seeing all the things I’ve done. They hold so many memories for me and I remember things that have been forgotten otherwise. They are special too me. So when people ask why I feel the need to take photos or that I’m just travelling ‘just to get a good photo’, it bothers me. Yes, I do want a good photo- I want to practise my photography and maybe even sell a few prints in which I do need a good photo. It is not to get as many likes on social media, its for myself. A hobby that fits perfectly well with my other hobby- travelling.

If you are a traveller I’m sure you would have come across at least one of these assumptions about travelling. I feel like its so hard to explain to someone who doesn’t understand why we travel, so inevitably there will be questions, judgements and assumptions. Sometimes they do get to you but I try to just keep on going with my life. I want to look back at all the adventures I’ve had with no regrets that I missed my chance. I travel for adventure, to see different cultures, try new foods, photograph incredible landscapes, hike to amazing waterfalls and to live the life I want. Like I said before its hard to explain, its just part of me.

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Why I Will Never Stop Travelling

01/08/2018 2 Comments

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For me, travel is more than just a ‘holiday’, it’s an experience. An experience that opens up a whole new world. A new way of thinking, a new way of dealing with things and a feeling of overwhelming inspiration that makes me feel I can take on this new world. Travel is a lesson on life and of yourself. It teaches you where your comfort zone lies and then to push past that comfort zone. To be brave, to be stupid, to be reckless and to be sensible.

You will laugh, you will cry, you’ll be scared and you’ll be empowered. It will push you into uncomfortable situations, allow you to grow and learn how to deal with them. You will form an instant bond with some people whilst others will irritate you to the max. Friendships formed can feel intense, as if you’ve known the person for years when it’s only been a week. However, as many a plan you make for meeting up back home, these friendships are usually short lived. Yet some will last the distance and at a minimum you’ll have a load of new Facebook friends and like-minded connections. You’ll share stories and knowledge and discover a million different things about something you never knew even existed.

Why Travel?

I feel like I have a purpose when I’m travelling, that I’m actually doing something with my life rather than wasting it back home in a dead end job. The memories I have made will last a lifetime and I’ll never run out of funny travel stories to tell the grandkids. Of course I’ve worried about my major lack of career, house or husband but then I look at what I do have and remember all the incredible things I’ve seen and done. For me, it’s all worth it. I want to look back on my life and say I’ve done everything I wanted to do.

There is no perfect time to travel, it’s something to be done at any age but of course its a whole lot easier before the stresses of work and kids. That being said there’s not any reason why that should stop you. I would like to make the most of the freedom I have now though and do the crazy stuff like skydiving whilst I have the energy and the courage! I mean, people have complete career changes at 40 these days so what’s the harm in starting mine a little later. I’ve learnt to take life as it comes and to enjoy going with the flow.

There are always new opportunities and adventures around the corner. Things can change quickly whilst travelling or lead you somewhere unexpected. It’s this unknown of never quite being sure of where you will end up, that I find most thrilling. The unknown is exciting and keeps travel interesting and engaging. I feel alive when I’m travelling. There’s always somewhere new to explore, something crazy to do or a weird new food to try. As soon as I’m sat on the plane home I’m already debating the next destination, that’s the travel bug caught by so many, being so awfully hard to get rid of! Although your expectations and experiences will alter through time.

Travel Evolves…

As you get older or travel longer what you look for within travel will change and develop. You might seek out different adventures or new things may take priority. Travelling in your twenties, staying in dirty hostels and partying all night may take a backseat later on. Each trip, each journey, holds something different and is experienced by a different you. The things that interest you will change and that’s ok. Times moves on and new things will become more important. This is why I will never stop travelling, because it always holds something new. It always delivers, even if it’s not in the way you expect or want. It always teaches and most important, it will always be there.

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