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Sri Lanka is a beautiful country, packed with palm trees, mountains, beaches, temples, and tea plantations. Travelling alone can be daunting so this solo female traveller’s guide to Sri Lanka will explain how to travel this wonderful country alone.

First up- Is it Safe to Travel to Sri Lanka Alone?

If you ask other solo female travellers how their experience was travelling alone in Sri Lanka, I’m sure you would receive mixed opinions.

Sri Lanka is a very conservative country and unfortunately some of the local men have certain perceptions about women (especially foreign women). I feel that they have a sort of power over women and that can lead to unwanted behaviour. The local women are usually covered, so when men see the tourists coming from overseas, wearing shorts or strappy tops they may get the wrong ideas.

Although there have been reports of females being groped or assaulted, I do believe that shouldn’t stop you. I myself was groped, whilst walking along the seafront in Galle- in broad daylight. I walked past a big group of teenage boys, aged around 14. After I waked past them, one came running up to me and out of nowhere just grabbed my breast. I batted his hand away fast and yelled “get away!”. He looked pretty shocked and then just ran back to his friends. I reckon it was just a dare from his mates but still I felt angry that a child could make me feel like that.

Unfortunately that sort of thing does happen- and you need to be careful. In the backpacker town Hikkaduwa at night it can get a little dangerous after dark so always ensure you are with a group if you want to go out in the evening.

That being said, I wouldn’t make the above a reason not to go to Sri Lanka. I would go back again and just be extra careful in certain places. So here are my safety tips for solo female travellers in Sri Lanka.

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I found a moose in Sri Lanka!

Do Your Research

Make sure you read up about local customs/norms/rules/culture, etc BEFORE you travel. Knowledge is power and knowing a bit about the country you are going to will help you to understand what to expect once you arrive. Read about each off the areas you want to visit, make sure you now how to get there and which transport options are available.

Research the local religion, what do the local women usually wear? What is considered offensive? Are there certain areas to be avoided? Knowing these things before you travel will allow you to feel in control and ready.

 

Ask Other Solo Female Travellers For Advice

By asking women who have already travelled alone to Sri Lanka you can get very real, honest and recent advice. Facebook groups such as GirlsLoveTravel are a great way to get helpful advice from girls who have recently travelled there. You can find out about their experiences, if they would have done anything different, the best places to stay and the best way to get around. The women are super friendly and helpful and no doubt your question will get answered in no time.

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Stay in a Hostel

By staying in a hostel, you will be sure to find other travellers in the same boat as you. By making friends with other travellers you can feel much more comfortable heading to certain places, knowing you’re not alone. Particularly if you want to go to the bars or night clubs- this should definitely not be done alone, so making friends in the hostel is a great way to still be able to enjoy the nightlife. The bigger the group the better, and having some males in the group would also be an advantage (as much as that annoys me to say, but unfortunately at the moment its true).

Do Not Go Out Alone After Dark

This is a very important female safety tip for Sri Lanka. After dark the crime rates go up and for men in Sri Lanka, seeing a woman walking around by herself in the dark is not a normal thing. They may get the wrong idea and you could get yourself in trouble. It’s always best to book a taxi if travelling at night too and make sure you’re with a group.

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Hikkaduwa beach

Book A Day Tour

Booking yourself on a day tour is a great idea. Not only do have far less safety concerns but you also have company. Sometimes when travelling alone its nice to be able to book a tour to be able to share the experience with other people, and maybe make some friends in the process. Usually tour companies will pick you up from your accommodation and drop you off- meaning you don’t have to worry about travelling around alone.

Do Not Be Afraid to Use Public Transport

Although I wouldn’t advise to use the public transport in Sri Lanka after dark, it’s perfectly fine in the day. I caught a local bus to the beach and back by myself and had no problems. The buses can get busy and the seats are really small but if you manage to get yourself a seat by the window, the experience can be quite enjoyable.

I just loved sitting by the open window of the bus, the warm breeze blowing through my hair and driving along right by the sea. The train from Ella to Kandy is also super popular with travellers, giving you stunning mountain and forest views.

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Dress Appropriately

If you’re not on the beach, make sure to cover your shoulders and knees at least. This is especially true if visiting temples. Not only does it show respect, it can also be a great way to stay safer. Walking around alone in skimpy clothing is a big no no in Sri Lanka.

Don’t Make Yourself A Target

Try to only take out what you need and keep your valuables that you don’t need back at your accommodation. It’s fine to get your camera out to take pictures but I wouldn’t be walking around with it over my neck and on show. Using a small, inconspicuous bag that can wrap over your shoulders is a good idea- don’t make it look like you have valuables on your person.

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First walk on Sri Lankan sand…

Show Your Confidence

Even if you don’t feel it- fake it! Make sure you look confident, walk tall, sound firm and sure of yourself and act as though you know exactly where you are going (even if you don’t). Men in Sri Lanka will stare at you and this can be uncomfortable but try not to let if affect you or show it on your face. By looking intimidated or walking around looking lost you are making yourself appear vulnerable and perhaps a bigger target.

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Be Vigilant but Still Chat With The Locals

Sri Lankan people are very friendly and do not mind stopping for a chat and getting to know a little about where you are from. Although its great to be vigilant and a little on the cautious side, that can sometimes stop you from experiencing the local side.

Talking with locals is great fun and you can learn a lot about the country, places to go, their own family or the best things to eat. Just make sure you are in a busy place like in a market and do not go wander off with them to somewhere secluded and unknown.

Keep your eye out when walking out alone and if something doesn’t feel right then call a taxi or head to a busy place. But mostly the locals will be very friendly and helpful.

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Book Accommodation in A Central Location

When you book your accommodation, be sure to find somewhere that’s close to town and in a reasonably busy place. Booking a small hostel somewhere off the beaten track with no amenities near by, means you may have to walk down quiet roads to get anywhere. By booking a place in a central location you can easily walk to local shops or attractions. Plus, there will more likely be other people there to connect with.

Don’t Say You Are Alone

If a local guy starts talking with you when you are out, its best to say you are just about to meet someone (a boyfriend or group of friends). Don’t let on that you are travelling alone as this could make you seem more vulnerable to them. If asked for your personal details- don’t give anything away as this could lead them to think that you are being more than just friendly.

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Get Advice From Your Accommodation

When I arrive at my hostel I always head to reception and ask the people that work there about the best places to go. They can tell you which areas to avoid and various safety tips for the local areas. They can also tell you where the best restaurants, attractions and amenities are, as well as the best taxi companies to look for.

Save Emergency Numbers in Your Phone

By learning and saving the countries emergency numbers, you have them quick on hand if you run into a problem. Hopefully nothing happens that you need to use them but at least you know they are there and don’t have to worry if you find yourself in a situation where you need to use them.

The emergency numbers for Sri Lanka are (always double check these before your trip):

119 – Police Emergency Service

110 – Ambulance

111 – Fire and Rescue

* Getting a local SIM is a great idea too!

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I hope you enjoyed my Safety Tips for Solo Female Traveller’s in Sri Lanka. It really is a stunning country that should be explored. By being prepared us women can make our trip much more enjoyable and take the stress out of worrying so much.

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Cape Town, South Africa is truly stunning, from beaches, mountains, vineyards, delicious food of every cuisine, museums and a great café scene. The views over the city from Table Mountain and Lion Rock are incredible. Seeing the cute penguins at Boulders beach is also not something to be missed.

What about solo female travel in Cape Town? Travelling alone as a woman in Africa can be scary and daunting- I completely understand. I spent several days alone in Cape town at the end of a tour and loved exploring the place myself. As a woman travelling solo you do need to take some extra safety precautions. Here’s safety guide for solo female travellers in Cape Town.

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Is Cape Town dangerous for solo female travel?

This is the number one thing us girls travelling alone want to know before we travel anywhere- will I be safe? Cape Town does have a high crime rate, so you definably need to be aware at ALL times. Muggings, pick pockets, scams, armed robberies and kidnappings do happen so it’s right that you need to be as prepared as possible before your trip.

BUT that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t travel here. Cape Town is such a beautiful city that it would be a shame to be missed. Following advice and researching your destination is the best way you can protect yourself.

Safety in Cape Town is a valid concern. Although most of the violent crimes happen out in the townships or isolated areas, there have been some armed robberies in tourist places. The remote areas should definitely be avoided if you are alone but also be aware that there is higher crime rate in the big cities. There can be regular protests in South Africa too and these should be avoided. Your Gov website will have up to date info too.

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How can I stay safe in Cape Town?

The good news is that it is still possible for solo female travel in Cape Town and there are plenty of safety tips to help you keep safe and have an enjoyable, problem free trip. Reading up on this is a necessity.

1.       Never walk alone after dark

After dark you should definitely not wander around alone as crime rates get even higher. Don’t put yourself in a vulnerable position and get a taxi to where you need to go. Walking short distances, I’d say is ok, I walked back to my hostel from the waterfront just fine, although I wouldn’t walk very long distances alone.

2.       Hide your valuables

Keep an eye on your things at all times- it only takes a second for someone to swipe them- you can’t leave anything unattended in South Africa. Do not flash your money- always wait until you are inside the shop or restaurant to take out your cash.

Don’t walk around with expensive looking possessions as this is just asking for trouble. Carry a modest looking bag with only the essentials and wait until a safe place to get out your camera. If you feel uncomfortable about taking out your camera then don’t and try not to take it out for too long a time- just enough to get the pic you need.

3.       Be aware and vigilant of your surroundings

This is standard advice for most countries but particularly Cape Town and South Africa. Always keep an eye on your possessions and where you are. Research where you are going beforehand, make sure you know it’s a reasonably safe area and how to get back to your accommodation.

Look around every so often when walking, keeping an eye out for anyone dodgy looking or following you. If this does happen then stay calm and head to the nearest busy place, like a hotel, shop or restaurant. I had no problems in being followed but it’s always good to keep an eye out just in case.

4.       Don’t go on hiking trails alone

Hiking alone as a woman in Cape Town is not recommended. You are much more vulnerable in these places and there will be less people around to call if you need help. Its best to book a day tour or find friends in the hostel.

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5.       Make friends with other travellers

Finding other travellers is a great way to keeper safer, especially if you’re wanting to hike up to Table Mountain or any of the other hiking trails. The bigger the group the better- it’s very easy to make friends when travelling and there will definitely be others wanting to find a travel buddy too.

6.       Avoid the trains

I would avoid the local metro trains in the larger cities as they have a high crime rate, especially after dark. If travelling on one of the expensive long-distance trains, such as the ‘Blue train’ these will be fine (and pretty luxurious too!). It’s better to get a reputable taxi as opposed to public transport, this is especially so at night.

7.       Research common scams in Cape Town

There are many scams in Cape Town- don’t be a victim to one of them. The best way to avoid theses scams is to read up on the most common before you travel. Knowledge is power.

Here are some common scams in Cape Town:

–          Watch out for people trying to ‘help you’ with the ATM machines. Try taking out money in the secure doored machines, inside the bank or ones that are watched by security.

–          Be aware of ‘officials’ in the airport. On my first trip to South Africa my friend had to pay an oversized baggage fee that went straight into the guys pocket. He was wearing an official uniform. Also watch for people wanting to ‘help’ with your luggage.

–          Fake tourist police may approach you with ids. Make sure you check their identification properly and call the real police if something doesn’t feel right.

–          Dodgy taxi’s- check the drivers id number and make sure it’s a reputable taxi. Ask your hostel for recommended companies. Always ask for the meter on.

–          Being approached by pick-pockets asking for money or trying to distract you in conversation. Keep your bag where you can see it- not on your back.

More on solo travel: Solo female travel: How to stay safe on the road

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8.       Avoid driving in Cape town

It might not be so much of a problem if you are in a group but would avoid driving altogether if alone. If you do, then watch out for people approaching at road junctions and traffic lights and keep valuables out of sight. Drive on the main roads and during day light. Crime is more common after dark.

9.       Watch your drinks

Hopefully you’re doing this anyway, no matter where you are in the world because unfortunately drink spiking does happen. To avoid this, watch the bar tender pour your drink or better yet, order something that has a seal on it like a can of beer. Only go out with people you trust and make sure you are in a group and stay together.

10.   Book yourself on a day tour

Day tours are great idea if travelling alone in Cape Town. Most of the companies will pick you up from your accommodation and drop you off again, so you are never actually alone. This is also a great way to make friends if wanting some company.

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11.   Ask locals for tips

Asking a local or at your accommodation reception for tips on the safest areas is such a great idea. They can tell you where not to go, the best days to visit certain places and what to avoid. They will have knowledge on the best ways to get around and of reputable companies.

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12.   Learn and save emergency numbers

Know the numbers for the police and ambulance and save them in your phone. That way if you get in trouble you can quickly call for help. It’s also a good idea to put in several taxi companies’ numbers and the number for your accommodation.

The emergency numbers for Cape Town are a little confusing – do check these in case of local changes:

–          Emergency National- 10111 (for police, free from landline, charged from mobile)

–          Emergency Ambulance- 10177 ( for ambulance, medical, fire)

–          From a mobile phone- 112 (free, takes you to automated system to direct you)

If you’re still reading and I haven’t put you off hooray! Cape Town can be safe for solo female travellers, if you do your research. I hope you found this post on staying safe helpful. Cape Town is a wonderful city to explore and there’s no reason why we can’t do it alone.

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Who doesn’t love a country walk? When the weather is warm and sunny it’s the perfect time to head out for one of the many beautiful walks in England. That being said, the English countryside can look just as pretty (or even more so) in Spring, Autumn or Winter (if it snows!). But a hot summers day and blue sky is what greeted me when I visited Dorchester on Thames with my Mum and sister.

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Dorchester on Thames Village

A small roman village situated nine miles from Oxford and fairly close to the Chiltern Hills, area of outstanding natural beauty. It is close to where the river Thames and Thyme meet.

This attractive village has it all, chocolate box thatched cottages, stunning green English countryside, cute little tea shops, old fashioned English pubs, an impressive Abbey and even classic cars!

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The small Oxfordshire village just happened to be the stopover for a group of classic car enthusiasts on their way to an event. This allowed tourists and locals alike to gather along the main street, taking photos while the owners posed with their much-prized vintage cars.

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Arrived just in time to see the line of vintage cars- such a delight

First stop was to have a good old cuppa tea in Lily’s Tea Room, a very welcoming family-run tearoom serving a classic full English breakfast, sandwiches and afternoon tea- how delightful! Next stop was to explore the quaint village.

lily's tearoom, Dorchester on Thames

The village is small, with a couple of pubs, a hotel and a few shops. Some of the side streets are lovely and worth checking out for the picturesque cottages. There’s also a war memorial situated in front of a very cute thatched cottage.

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How cute is this door

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The war memorial

Some of the buildings, such as The George, an old coaching inn, date back to 1495 and still look just as quaint as I imagine they did back then. Dorchester on Thames also has a small claim to fame being the set of several episodes of ‘Midsummer Murders’.

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An old coaching house, dating back to 1495

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posing by Dorchester Abbey

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Dorchester Abbey dates back to the 12th century and is one of the earliest Christian buildings in Great Britain. It’s seriously impressive and has a museum and tearoom for tourists to find out more about the history of the abbey.

Dorchester Abbey museum sign

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Food & Drink in Dorchester on Thames

There are several places to eat in the village from Lily’s Tearoom and the Dorchester Abbey tearoom. There are two old pubs, the Fleur de Lys, which has a lovely beer garden and the George Hotel, dating back to the 15th century. The pubs were closed on my visit, so we ate at the White Hart Hotel and grabbed a cosy seat by the window, perfect for people watching.

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Yummy lunch at the White Hart
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There are many pretty walks around here- we did a circular walk covering quite a lot, which made for a lot of variety along the way. This must be one of the best walks in England I have done- it was just so pretty!

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How cute is this!

After getting a tiny bit lost down some country lanes, due to a very poor hand drawn map- we headed out of the village and across to Hurst Water Meadow. Set across 25 acres, these historical flood meadows (when not flooded) are very picturesque and green, filled with delicate yellow and purple flowers.

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House dated from early 18th century
Walking through Hurst water meadow
Walking through Hurst water meadow

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After passing a few more idyllic country cottages, we walked alongside the river, as well as seeing a man swimming in the glistening water (and slightly murky looking water). With the river on one side and lush green fields on the other, it was so nice to soak up the British sunshine.

river boat along the beautiful walk in Dorchester on Thames

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Walking along the river

The path (which links up to the Thames path) winds its way around to a little church where a wedding was taking place- all the guests were gathered outside. The church, named St Peter’s, sits opposite Wittenham Clumps, a pretty but steep hill overlooking Dorchester on Thames and surrounding countryside.

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After a quick sit down, we walked up the hill to be greeted with beautiful views over the English countryside. The views were stunning, and everyone was out on the warm Sunday afternoon, enjoying some downtime. After some family photo time we walked over to an adjoining hill which was once an iron age fort.

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Gorgeous views from wittenham clumps

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Down the hill is Little Wittenham Wood, a delightful woodland, covered by trees and smells of flowers. A nice break from the warm sun. I love how much variety there is on this walk.

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Little Wittenham woodland

We wandered through the woodland and came out by Days Lock, built in 1789 and the setting of the annual Poohsticks championships. We watched the gates open as a family on kayaks and an older couple went through on their boat. Such a nice setting with the sun our and blue water sparkling.

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The walk back to the village took us on a different a path, alongside fields on one side and small hills on the other, where some sheep friends were out to say hello. This pretty walk back lead us into the heart of the village where the walk ended.

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Pretty walk back to the village

Sheep posing for a photo in the countryside

Hope you enjoyed this post on one of the best walks in England– it really did have everything from river, ponds, streams, woodland, meadows, rolling hills and a quaint village to go with it.

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How to get to Dorchester on Thames (from London)

By Car: It’s about a 90-minute drive from London, depending on traffic. From the A40, follow the M40 West, at junction 6, change to the B4009 (Watlington/P. Risborough exit) and follow that down to the A4074 (Henley Rd), which will lead to the village.

By public transport: Taking almost 2 hours, take a train to Reading and change onto the X38 or X39 bus to the village.

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The island of Zanzibar is part of Tanzania being a small island just off the mainland. With it’s stunning turquoise waters and pure white sand beaches, it’s strikingly different to the rest of Tanzania. This paradise island is a perfect way to end a busy and fun filled safari trip.

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Shores of Stone Town, Zanzibar

I was part of a safari tour in Tanzania, which ended in Zanzibar and then had 4 days to myself to relax. Unfortunately is rained everyday! Surprisingly though the water was still just as blue. There was a brief break in the rains and when the sun came out the water glistened and I could see Zanzibar in all its glory.

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Taking a stroll along Nungwi beach

So things to do in Zanzibar?

Here is a guide of things to do and places to see in Zanzibar, Tanzania. I was mainly in Stone Town and Nungwi beach (at the Northern tip of the island).

1. Tour Around Cultural Stone Town

Stone Town Zanzibar, Tanzania
Stone Town Zanzibar, Tanzania

Stone Town is where I flew into from mainland Tanzania and it was a surprising place to visit. Completely different to the rest of the beachside places on the island. Very much like Morocco, this Muslim town has many quirky features, from it’s textured street walls, intricate carved doors, with pastel blue colours, art and textile shops and bustling food markets.

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Stone Town has many alley ways to walk down, with a real artsy feel and many historical sites. Check out the busy Darajani Market, selling fresh fish, meat and spices. There’s also everything from cheap electronics to clothes and textile shops.

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2. Explore Christ Church, Zanzibar

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Christ Church Zanzibar

This early Christian church made of coral stone was built in 7 years. Christ Church has a dim past and on my guided tour of Stone Town we were taken down into the chambers by the church. This is where they kept slaves chained up in such cramped conditions, some would die from suffocation.

It was a hard thing to see in person and once inside, you get just a glimpse and sense of how claustrophobic theses chambers are. Back inside the church we were shown a wooden crucifix made from the wood of the trees that British explorer David Livingstone died under. His heart is buried under the same tree in Zambia.

Outside the church is the memorial ‘Memory for the Slaves’, commemorating the abolishment of slavery. Although hard to see and hear of the stories that happened here, it was an insightful tour into the hard history of Stone Town.

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3. Touch Giant Tortoises on Prison Island (Changuu)

Changuu Island, known commonly as Prison Island is only 30 min by boat from Stone Town. Delving more into Zanzibar’s past, the guide I had booked explained how this island was originally intended to hold slaves but ended up being used as a quarantine station for yellow fever epidemics.

Prison Island, Zanzibar
Prison Island, Zanzibar

In 1919, a gift of 4 giant tortoises were given to the island by the British governor of the Seychelles. Changuu island today is used as a tourist island, where you can feed and touch the tortoises, whilst learning a bit about the history of the place.

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4. Snorkel off Changuu Island

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Off for a snorkel by Changuu island

As well as seeing giant tortoises off Prison Island (Changuu) it’s a great place to snorkel. I was on my own but felt pretty safe with my guide, as he and another guy driving the boat stopped out on the open water. The snorkelling was actually really good and I might have even seen more fish than I did on the Great Barrier Reef!

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Exploring Prison Island
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Heading out to go snorkelling!

You can do this as a half day trip from Stone Town, with the Prison Island tour, meeting the giant tortoises and then snorkelling. It’s a really cheap tour as well so I would definitely recommend this!

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5. Relax on a White Sand Beach

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Perfect waters

Heading up North to Nungwi beach, I instantly felt more relaxed. It’s such a different vibe from busy Stone Town and the beaches of Nungwi are stunning. Imagine crisp, turquoise water, so clear and glistening in the sun. When the tide is in, there are steps taking you directly down into the water.

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So clear 🙂

This is where you don’t have to do anything at all. Just sit. We always feel we should be doing something, visiting an attraction or doing an adventure activity, etc. Sometimes it’s just nice to sit and let doing nothing take over. After a while you will wind down take everything at a slower pace.


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6. Read a Good Book

When it was raining on my time on Zanzibar island, I thought it was a great time to just take some time for myself and read a good book. Something that can be hard to find time for at home. There is also something meditating about hearing a downpour of tropical rain in the background.

7. Have A Go At SUP

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Have a go at SUP

SUP or stand up paddle boarding is a great way to get a bit active on Nungwi beach. Paddle boards can be rented for cheap and they double up as another way to explore the beautiful island. If you’re looking for more activities try renting out a kayak or booking a sunset boat cruise.

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8. Watch the locals playing football

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football!

From a great vantage point of a cute little cafe, I was able to watch the locals in a game of football. With such a stunning backdrop it’s easy to just sit back and take in the setting (without doing any of the hard work).

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Watching the world go by

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9. Enjoy a Zanzibar Sunset & Sunrise

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Gorgeous sunset over the Indian ocean
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Sunrise is worth getting up for

Zanzibar has some great sunsets, with that orange glow slowly drifting over the blue water, there’s no better way to end the day on Nungwi beach. Get up early the next day and be rewarded by a tranquil and pretty sunrise over the ocean. Stone Town also had some great sunsets, even better along with a good cocktail on a rooftop bar!

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10. Eat & Watch A Storm Roll In

When there’s a storm on Zanzibar? Eat, drink, read, take a nap in a hammock (covered of course) and just watch nature. Although not ideal weather I did get some decent shots of a storm rolling in over the ocean.

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A storm rolling in
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Lunch with a view

There are also many cafes and restaurants, serving fresh seafood, western style dishes also and great cocktails. You can just eat all day long- why not!

11. Watch the Local Women Fish

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Local women heading out to fish

In the mornings you might catch the local women heading out into the ocean to go fishing. With their traditional methods, they line up in single file, walking out to the water with their fishing nets. This is a great photography opportunity to capture the local way of life.

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12. Take a Look at the Village

Nungwi Village Zanzibar
Nungwi Village Zanzibar

Just in from the tourist beach hotels are the local villages. You can walk around by yourself (just be slightly cautious- no flashing of valuables, etc) or you can book a village tour which will explain about local life. I also went to the local night club with a few people who were still on the island from my tour group. This was a pretty fun experience but I did have the security of my guide who joined us even though our tour had ended. For women alone I would avoid going out after dark by yourself, as a precaution.

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Nungwi beach, Zanzibar Tanzania

Being a Muslim country females should have shoulders and knees covered, especially whilst in Stone Town. I felt safe enough with my tour group around Stone Town but when I tried to venture out alone in the morning I did feel a bit uncomfortable (even though I was covered up). The men stared a lot and were hissing/ shouting things. I cut my walk short, much to my annoyance as I felt it was best at the time. However I did see many other females walking out alone who seemed perfectly fine so I guess it’s just down to how comfortable you feel in the present situation.

On the beaches its much more relaxed in terms of how you can dress. Although still respectful to cover up a bit in restaurants, the locals do not seem to be bothered by it as much as in Stone Town. What you will get through is touts on the beach, selling sunglasses and what not. They are friendly enough and more annoying than anything else. A firm no should do the trick and you can continue on your way.

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Where to Stay in Zanzibar?

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How about a game of beach volleyball? (Nungwi)

The majority of the best beaches are in the North and West side of the island but really you can find stunning beaches anywhere. Kendwa and Nungwi in the North are considered some of the best beachside places to visit, whilst Matemwe in the North-East is becoming more popular with tourists.

On the East side Kiwengwa beach and Pongwe beach are popular spots. The South is more undeveloped but Kizimkazi beach is a great place if you’re after total seclusion. Bwejuu and Dongwe beach in the South East are great for snorkelling. For diving places, head up to the North of Zanzibar.

If you have time on your hands then a road trip from the North and down the West side of the island would be a great way to see the variety of beaches on offer.

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Best time to visit Zanzibar, Tanzania?

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Taken from the small plane into Zanzibar

The long rainy season is from March-May, with tropical downpours across the island. The short rainy season is during November and December- the rains are much lighter but can be unpredictable.

The best time to go is during the long dry season from June-October, when rainfall is rare and the temperatures are slightly cooler. January and February are also popular times to visit and it is usually hot and dry.

Whatever time of year or part of the island you visit, I’m sure Zanzibar will be a stunning getaway and a perfect way to round up a week long safari in the Serengeti! Hope you enjoyed this post and I have inspired you to visit this beautiful Tanzanian island. Let me know in the comments below!

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There’s something special about Africa. Something that’s hard to put into words and something that can only truly be felt. To experience a trip to Africa is a once in a lifetime for many. A Tanzanian safari, a visit to Maasai villages, being the heart of curiosity amongst the local children and walking along the dusty streets, chatting to the local food sellers. Africa is the ultimate adventure.

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A young boy with his herd

Tanzania is a popular country for an African safari as it’s the home of the Serengeti National Park, one of the best places for wildlife viewing in the world. Here you will see the big 5- lion, leopard, elephant, rhino and buffalo. Aside from these incredible animals there’s an abundance of wildlife from birds, cheetahs, zebra, impala, baboons, crocodiles and hippos. It literally is like being in a David Attenborough documentary!

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There will be hundreds more in the full swing of migration

I booked myself on a Tanzania & Zanzibar tour with GAdventures, which included visiting a Maasai village, a 4 day Tanzania safari and ended in the beautiful Zanzibar. This is a great trip if you want to combine paradise beaches with safari! (Pssstt…I will post a separate post on Zanzibar next week!)

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Excited for safari

Here is what you can expect from a 4 day camping safari in Tanzania. It is a budget option as opposed to the luxury lodges but I actually believe that camping out in the middle of the Serengeti, with no barriers or gates between you and the wild animals is an INCREDIBLE experience. We actually had an elephant walk directly into our camp as we were eating dinner, just a few feet away! More on that below…

 

So lets get started with our Tanzania safari tour shall we?!

 

Lunch at Mto wa Mbu Village

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Learning more about the village

The day before our Serengeti safari, my tour GAdventures tour group visiting the local Mto wa Mbu village, where we learnt about local life. We were shown around the fields, told how they build their huts and grow their own food, seeing many banana trees around!

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Paintings and crafts from the local market

We also went to the markets where the locals sell paintings and crafts, mainly for the tourists I think. Although I’m usually dubious about the ‘local stalls with the same reproduced souvenirs you see everywhere’, I have to say that these handmade mixed media paintings and sculptures were actually very good, resulting in me purchasing several items!

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I bought this!

Later on we ate a traditional lunch of meat and plantains from the village, very delicious and great to try some local food.

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A fantastic local lunch

Visit to a Maasai Village

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The Maasai women showing us their traditional dress and dance

Close to Mto wa Mbu village, we visited a local Maasai tribe, all dressed in the traditional clothing and jewellery, full with textures and bright colours (predominantly red). The colour red is believed by the Maasai people that it can warn off lions and so is a symbol of their culture.

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Being shown the village huts was educational

The woman and children were there to greet us, singing and jumping. I was overwhelmed by their huge smiles and welcoming nature. What a fantastic experience. They even put the white necklaces around us and we joined them jumping up and down whilst they sang.

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One of the best experiences was meeting these tribes women
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Joining in the singing and jumping

We were then shown around the village and spoken to about the Planeterra project that is working on installing clean cook stoves in these huts. This removes the harmful smoke (that is linked to numerous deaths) and in place removes 90% of the pollution. For the women these stoves are a God send and they were proudly speaking of how it has helped their families.

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Those green eyes though

After our tour it was time to say goodbye to the village and it seemed all of the kids ran out to wave goodbye, full of energy. I remember feeling so happy to have had this experience and looked forward to the Tanzania safari to come. And what better way to end the day, sitting by the campsites pool whilst a delicious meal was being cooked up for us by our guide.

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All the village kids out to say goodbye
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Relaxing by the campsite pool after an eye opening day

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OK and now for the safari…

 

Tanzania Safari: Day 1 (Arusha to Serengeti National Park)

My tour group woke early for a lovely breakfast made by our guide. Preparing for an 8 hour drive from Arusha, Tanzania into the Serengeti National Park, we eagerly jumped on the huge over-landing vehicle. The group was fairly small so we each got 2 seats to ourselves- what a bonus.

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Driving out of Arusha, Tanzania

We drove past local villages, shops and food stalls before heading into the savannah. We actually saw a lot of wildlife before even reaching the Serengeti, where you will find one of the largest populations of lions in the world.

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Viewpoint over Serengeti
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Our guide by the huge tour bus

Once we arrived at the Serengeti National Park entrance, we stopped for some photos and were basically glued to the windows for the next few hours. I remember when we first saw some zebra, everyone was so excited, we wanted to stop every 5 minutes. Our tour guide told us “don’t worry, we will see plenty more zebra”. And we definitely did.

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We’re here!
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buffalo

After a long day of driving, we had to set up our tents at the basic bush camp. I actually couldn’t believe that there was no gates or anything- animals could walk past our tents of they wanted. Our guide told us of times when they had seen lions footprints close to the tents- pretty scary though but it just makes it more exciting!

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First sunset of the safari

We sat by the fire for a while after dinner but all got an early night, ready for day 2 of our African safari. Can’t even tell you how exciting I was for the morning at this point!

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Tanzania Safari: Day 2 (full day Serengeti safari)

So I slept well the previous night after a full day previously, plus there’s something about camping out on the ground, wrapped up in a warm sleeping bag that just sends you right off. We were also delighted to see a group of zebras close to our tents to say good morning to us.

After waking up in the dark, I was soon thankful for the early wake up call as, the most beautiful sunrise slowly lit up the savannah. We headed out early and it didn’t take long to spot an African elephant wandering through the trees.

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First animal of the day and one of my favourites 🙂

After this we saw herds of zebra and impala, a group of female lions (very exciting!), hippos, giraffes, birds and a crocodile. I couldn’t believe the amount of wildlife we were seeing.

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Impala, hippos, crocodile and a stalk (croc is behind hippos on land- hard to spot)


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Lions sleep a lot!

We were also very privileged to see a leopard attending to her cubs. They are very rare to see and she was hidden away really well but I could feel my heart beating faster as she popped her head over the rock.

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A rare glimpse of a leopard

We then stopped at a coffee shop- yes, you read right. A small cafe selling coffee and snacks right in the heart of the Serengeti! There were these little creatures walking round that I have now discovered to be called rock hyrax’s and they are seriously cute.

After a coffee break we headed back to camp for some lunch, before heading out again in the afternoon. We spotted ostriches, hyenas, elephants, giraffes, a huge lake full of hippos and at the end of the day, a cheetah walking into the sunset. Yep, that was an adventurous day of safari!

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Wouldn’t wanna get caught in those jaws
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Seeing a cheetah at the end of the day was the perfect end


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Back at camp we were treated by a gorgeous sunset (cant beat an African sunset) and a beer by the campfire, where our guide told us spooky ghost stories.

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One of the best sunsets I’ve seen
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Beer by the fire after a full day of safari- well deserved!
Read more of my adventures in Tanzania: Making Jewellery at the Orphanage: Arusha, Tanzania

Tanzania Safari: Day 3 (Serengeti National Park to Ngorongoro Crater rim)

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A baboon searching for food
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A zebra playing camouflage

Geared up for another morning of safari, today the group had one last wildlife tour in the Serengeti, before heading to the campsite overlooking the Ngorongoro Crater (known for the best wildlife viewings). Yet more wildlife to be seen from baboons, lions, zebras playing in the mud and a cheetah eating a kill. This was incredible to see in person after having watched so many nature documentaries showing this.

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A cheetah with a kill

Later that day we drove the our campsite on the Ngorongoro Crater’s rim. This was my favourite campsite as the views were out of this world incredible. This is the campsite where a male elephant just walked right past where we were eating, only a few feet away. They really weren’t joking when they said we were out in the wild!

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Enjoying the setting at camp

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What a heart pumping experience! He ended up walking to some trash by the camp and so we just sat back out by our fire, eating dinner and keeping one eye open on the elephant that was next door- madness!

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Making dinner with elephant in background

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Tanzania Safari: Day 4 (Ngorongoro Crater)

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Yet another beautiful sunrise
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Getting the jeeps loaded for safari

We woke up to another stunning sunrise, the sun reflecting off the morning mist that was rising up into the sky. Today was when we explored the Ngorongoro Crater, where there is always lots of wildlife due to there being a permanent water supply here. We drove down into the crater in big jeeps with open roofs.

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Stunning views from the Ngorongoro Crater
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Lions!

The Ngorongoro Crater looked a lot more green than the Serengeti and the stunning backdrop of the mountains and cloud formations were beautiful. The wildlife were everywhere- we literally drove through herd of zebra and wildebeest.

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Driving through the wildlife
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A lioness with cubs (you can see a couple either end of the rocks and 1 climbing in the middle)

Again we saw numerous wildlife like lions and another cheetah. It felt lively with herds of zebra and wildebeest stampeding around running after each other. The photo opportunities are just everywhere here.

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The Ngorongoro Crater was so green

There’s a swamp section where we saw hippos and an area covered with trees, where we saw elephants roaming. We even saw a rhino in the distance. The whole safari experience was completely incredible and what a fantastic way to end this adventure.

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Lazy lion

Best time to visit the Serengeti?

The good news is that you can go on safari any time of the year. I went in March during rainy season which is sometimes not recommended but we had perfect weather. If you are looking to see the best of the great wildebeest migration then go in June to September. January and February are when the wildebeest give birth to their calves. March to May is considered low season due to the rains. But really every season has something different to offer. P.S- The migration happens throughout the year, track it here with this helpful map.

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Elephants in the Ngorongoro crater

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What to wear on safari?

Many safari’s, especially camping safaris will have a luggage restriction so try not to over pack. Finding clothing that mix’s and matches well is a great idea. You also need to make sure you pack neutral, earthy toned clothing and avoid bright colours (which may scare off the animals). Try to avoid darker colours, particularly anything blue as this attracts the tsetse fly (a disease carrying insect). Anything white will be likely to get dirty as safari’s get very dusty!

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Enjoying a safari in Ngorongoro crater

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Where can I stay in the Serengeti?

There is an abundance of accommodation types suited for most budgets. Basic camping is the most budget friendly and then the permanent tents or glamping is the next step up. From there you have hotels to luxury lodges. The list is endless!

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Camping out in the open

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Hope you enjoyed this post on what to expect on a Tanzanian safari, it really is a bucket list experience and I would thoroughly recommend Tanzania as a whole. There’s plenty more to see and do from visiting coffee plantations in the mountains or lazing around on a tropical beach in Zanzibar (more on that to come).

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Elephants. And lots of them! That’s what I think of when I think of Botswana. The countries elephant population is 130,000 strong and the largest in Africa. It’s also home to UNESCO World Heritage site, the Okavango Delta- a huge marshland in the North-West of the country. Botswana is also considered one of the safest countries in Africa, occurring mostly petty crime rather serious attacks, which are still rare. The locals are also extremely friendly and always smiling.

For the adventurous and wildlife lovers then look no further. Botswana has it all. National parks, boat trips, quad biking, horse riding, walking & cycling safaris, hot air ballooning and even camel rides.

So here are 8 adventurous things to see and do in Botswana:

1. Safari in Chobe National Park

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Chobe National Park is right by the border with Zambia and Zimbabwe, a great location if you want to cross the border to catch a glimpse of Victoria Falls (which you should). Go on a safari through the park and get up and close with elephants, bird species, hippos, giraffes, buffalo, cheetah, zebra and many more!

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So many elephants in Botswana

I was really surprised how close we got to the elephants, we even had a little baby ellie chasing after our van! Most accommodation is situated just outside the park and ranges from basic camping to luxury lodges.

2. Sunset Boat Cruise on the Chobe River

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See the big 5 from a boat

Offering a different perspective of Chobe National Park, the sunset river cruise allows you to see many animals along the river banks, such as crocodile, hippos and elephants wading through the water. Plus the deep red glow from the African sun means you can get awesome photos of the park.

I remember sitting on the boat watching the wildlife and the backdrop of the intense sunset and thinking how special this opportunity and how it was truly a once in a lifetime experience.

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3. Take a Helicopter Ride Over the Okavango Delta

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From the river to the sky, take in a wider view over the Okavango Delta. The huge marshland floods every year, with the best time to visit being the dry season as animals congregate to the open water source.

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Views from above

Taking a flight in a tiny plane over the delta gives an opportunity for interesting photos of animals from above. I went with Kavango Air. It also gives you the chance to see how vast and green the landscape is. I loved seeing the water flooding in and the sky reflecting in the massive pools and lakes it forms.

4. Take a Mokoro tour (and try it out yourself)

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A peaceful journey

A mokoro or dugout canoe is a traditional mode of transport and can give visitors a chance to see the delta from a different angle and to just sit, taking in nature at it’s best. My tour group took a 2 hour mokoro tour deep into the delta. This was such a peaceful and tranquil ride, the group was quiet, just sitting, taking in the water lilies, wildlife and surrounding bush landscape. There was something very calming about the gentle and repetitive rhythm of the canoe, with the water being so still.

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Trying not to fall in!

I also had the chance to push my own dugout canoe (which is a bit like punting in Cambridge for those of you who have tried that). After a few initial wobbles it’s not too bad. A pretty cool experience to say you’ve tried.

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5. Camp Overnight in a Wild Bushcamp

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Heading into the bush

As part of my mokoro trip, my tour group also stayed overnight in the Okavango Delta, right in the heart of the wild bushland. There’s no showers, no toilet, just incredible landscapes and bright night skies. With no barriers between you or potentially dangerous wildlife this is both exiting and scary at the same time. You can also take a quick swim in the water which may or may not have crocodiles in. It was a brief dip I’ll tell you that!

Okavango delta boat trip

We headed out on a walking safari, seeing zebra and antelope and bird species, before being treated to a golden sunset. In the evening the locals who pushed the boats gave us a song and dance performance around the campfire and invited us to join in. A great way to end the day and we all fell asleep quickly that night.

More on Africa: Tanzania Safari Adventure: Camping with the Big 5

6. Walk with the San Bushmen of Botswana

San Bushmen, Botswana

This was one of my favourite memories from this trip. The San Bushmen of the Kalahari are fascinating people. Unfortunately there are few tribes left that are able to live in the traditional and ancient way as their ancestors lived. These walking tours are often run by the safari lodges who allow the San bushmen to pass on knowledge to visitors about how they are able to live off the land.

They speak no English so everything is translated through a local guide as they explain how they use plants for food and medicine and showing us how to make fire. They are all dressed in traditional animal skin clothing and I was surprised at how small they were in comparison to us Westerners.

I found them mesmerising and full of wisdom. The warm light at the end of the day cast a beautiful orange glow over the bushmen and the land, just adding to the extraordinary experience.

San Bushmen, Botswana

7. Enjoy Camping In Botswana

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One of the campsites

What I loved most about this Africa trip was just camping out night after night under the amazing African sky. There’s something so simple about camping and it just feels like you’re a world away from home.

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Relaxing at camp

Go back to basics and appreciate the landscape even more. Aside from basic bush camping, a lot of the campsites are actually very well decorated, complete with swimming pools like the Planet Baobab camp. They will usually have a restaurant and bar area to relax, with the more basic ones having a bbq to make your own food. I really enjoyed relaxing at camp with a beer after a lot day of adventurous activities.


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8. Look for Animals in the Road

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Giraffes in the road

Botswana in particular, I noticed so many big game animals on the side of the road. It’s just fascinating sitting in the overland truck, staring out the window, listening to music, watching the world go by- and then an elephant is just a few feet from you right on the road. We saw all sorts of wildlife by the roadside which adds to the excitement of the road trip- expect the unexpected in Africa!

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Not something you see everyday

Really hope you enjoyed this post on where to visit in Botswana. It really is an unforgettable country and a wildlife and photographers dream. To see the big 5 in person is something that’s hard to describe. If you haven’t yet, then be sure to add this to the bucket list.

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If you liked this you’ll love reading: Namibia: 15 Stunning Reasons Why You Need To Visitsolo female travel advice

The diversely beautiful country of Namibia is situated on the Southwest coast of Africa. I was surprised how different it looks to other parts of Africa, from the white dust of the National parks to the fairly built up German towns that feel quite European.

Namibia has plenty to do and a variety of landscapes from desert to rivers and the coast. Here are 15 things to do in Namibia and why it should be next on your list of places to visit…

 

1. Deadvlei: Reason Alone to Visit Namibia

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The dunes of Deadvlei are located in the Sossusvlei area, in the Namib desert and are one of the biggest reasons why people travel to Namibia. This place is like no other and a photographers paradise. The 900 year old camel thorn trees are scorched black by the harsh sun- creating stunning images again the white sand and red dunes. Add this to the top of your list.

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2. Stroll Over Fish River Canyon

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The impressive Fish River Canyon is the second largest in the world after Grand Canyon and is seriously impressive. I went at sunset, a perfect time with the low sunlight illuminating the canyon an intense orange colour. There is even a challenging 5 day hike into the canyon that can only be completed from May-mid September due to the burning heat. For day trippers it’s an easy stroll along the outside with various viewpoints to take some stunning selfies!

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3. Get Close to Wildlife in Etosha National Park

Etosha National Park, Namibia

Etosha National Park has a variety of terrain and it’s huge salt pan can even be seen from space. The landscape I saw was hugely vast with white ground and dust filling the air. With my tour group I camped out inside the park where it even had its own watering hole.

sunset, Etosha National Park, Namibia

The animals are still completely wild and all gather to this watering hole at the same time! Elephants, giraffe, hippos, lions-  you name it. It’s a once in a lifetime experience to just sit by this watering hole for hours- even into the night and watch the animals come and go.

4. Horse-riding into the desert

I booked a horse-riding tour with a couple of others from my GAdventures tour group which left straight from the Spitzkoppe Camp we were staying in. This camp is awesome btw- right in the middle of nowhere!

So after getting adjusted on the horse we literally rode off into the sunset. We had the place to ourselves and the setting was incredible. They cater for all levels also.Horse riding namibia

Horse riding namibia

5. Climb up Dune 45

Dune 45 sits at 170 meters and takes around 40 mins to an hour to climb up (reasonably easy). Another one for the photographers here with vast views across the Namib desert. Also once you reach the top you can run back down again which is quite exciting.

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6.  Enjoy the Drive

Although it can take a while to get from place to place, there’s plenty to see along the way. We stopped numerous times to snap animals in the road or just for the scenery of mountains and desert. If you are road-tripping be sure to stop at Solitaire town- a tiny desert town with abandoned cars by the roadside. Perfect for that much needed coffee break.

7. Snap a Photo at the Tropic of Capricorn

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This is a popular photo spot situated about hour after the town of Solitaire, heading towards Walvis Bay. This marks the spot (approximately) of one of the 5 circles of latitude, running parallel to the equator. It’s really just a photo spot but interesting to see.

8. Quad Bike Through the Desert

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Swakopmund is the place to book a quad biking tour. For the adventurers this activity will surely get your heart racing. Driving up and over the dunes, wind in hair and flying over the sand was some serious fun.

9. Visit the Petrified Forest

This strange place is formed of huge fossilised tree trunks estimated at about 280 million years old.  The Petrified Forest sits at what was once an old river channel with ancient trees preserved and turn to stone. It’s something different to visit – perfect for those who like a bit of history.


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10. See a Fascinating Shipwreck

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Namibia is known for its shipwrecks that can be found along it’s coast. I visited Zeila shipwreck right on the beach. There is something so eerie about an abandoned ship and the stories that go with it. The birds taking up residence on what’s left of the vessels frame are kinda creepy don’t ya think?!

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11. Take a Desert Tour

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A lot of Namibia is desert and although it may look deserted there are plenty of animals that thrive here. Take an insightful tour over the dunes and find out about the animals that live here and how they survive. There is also fantastic photo opportunities at sunset, the suns golden glow creating a beautiful soft light over the landscape.

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desert tour namibia

12. Canoe along the Orange River

Fiddlers Creek Rest Camp is situated on the Orange River that forms part of the border with South Africa. From here you can hire out canoes and cruise along the still river. Go as fast or slow as you like as you drift along the scenic landscape.

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13. Shop at Local Stalls and Explore the Villages

Whilst driving along you will see arts and handicraft stalls run by the local women. These are great places to grab yourself a unique souvenir and to chat with the locals.

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There will always be friendly children waiting to greet you- all very excited at the prospect of meeting a foreigner. There are also tours that take you into local villages and schools, giving a glimpse into the life of the locals.

14. Indulge in a steak at Joe’s Beerhouse

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Joe’s Beerhouse in Windhoek is famous for it’s steak and oh my I can’t even tell you how delicious it was! You can get everything from zebra, kudu, springbok and crocodile. It’s a meat lovers paradise and the decor is amazing too. The waiters are super nice and even remembered our entire tables order of around 15 off my heart!

15. Enjoy a Simple Campfire

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One of the best parts about my trip was setting up camp every couple of nights and sleeping under the stars. It makes for a true adventure and enjoying a beer by the fire after a long day is a welcome break. It’s great to sit back by the campfire out in the open, eating dinner and chatting about the day. Be at one with nature 🙂

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A guide to the most pretty national park in Thailand!

We race past huge limestone cliffs covered with thick green rainforest, reflecting in the bright, turquoise water below. We sail past a tour group swimming under the cliffs and I can barely contain my excitement at wanting to jump straight in the cool water. The warmth and humidity of the hot sun beating down on me as my hair catches the breeze. So where am I? Khao Sok National Park of course.

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Heading For Khao Sok

Where is Khao Sok National Park?

Khao Sok National Park is situated in Southern Thailand, close to Surat Thani, Krabi and Phuket. The rainforest, limestone cliffs, wildlife and waterfalls of Khao Sok are perfect exploring grounds for anyone who loves nature, trekking and wild swimming.

You can arrive by mini bus, shuttle buses from nearby towns or book an organised tour to guide you around. I’m on a Thai Intro tour group and after arriving to Surat Thani via the sleeper train from Bangkok, we get a mini bus to the National Park.

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Cruising…

Arriving at the floating bungalows…

Cruising past the beautiful park on our motor boat, we arrive at the floating bungalows. I have to pinch myself. The place is surrounded by the lush rainforest covered cliffs and a lake with some of the clearest water I’ve seen. Oh and it really is that gorgeous turquoise colour!

Khao Sok National Park, Thailand

Khao Sok National Park, Thailand
The very green rainforest

My tour group is happy and eager for a swim in the fresh and crystal clear water. We are shown to our simple wooden huts, which only contain a mattress on the floor, but really, what more do you need?! This is nature at it’s most pure and to wake up with that view is truly special.

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Having fun in the water

There are also more expensive huts and rainforest resorts on the other side with beds and private toilets for those who want a little more comfort. But seeing as I will probably be outside for most of the time, I’m happy with my little hut. Fishes swim close by the huts where you can just jump straight into the water. This is just paradise.

Khao Sok National Park, Thailand

The group makes use of the free canoes and tubes and we spend the afternoon lounging around in the water, chatting and floating in the inflatable tubes with a beer in hand. All meals are included and can I just say that the food is amazing! The fried squid with crispy batter was delicious! And fresh fruit in the mornings (yum). I eat well tonight.

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Relaxing in nature 🙂

It’s the following morning and I force myself to get up for sunrise to take pictures while the lake is deserted and still. No-one else is up, all is calm, the only sound being that from the singing birds. I feel a sense of peace being the only one up and having this experience to myself.4 day free guide solo female travelfloating bungalows, Khao Sok, Thailand (7)

Look at that reflection!Khao Sok National Park, Thailand

After breakfast me and the tour group try cliff jumping into the water. Terrifying at first but I managed to jump! After this thrilling experience we enjoy a last swim in the lake and then its time to depart. I wish I had more time here to do some jungle trekking and just to unwind a bit more but my one night here was incredible. Back on the boat with the sun on my face and wind in my hair, I reflect on this unique experience, looking forward to the next adventure.

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Kerala, a state in the South of India is known for it’s gorgeous backwaters, canals, tea and spice plantations and palm tree lined beaches. Alleppey in particular was by far the most relaxed place I visited in India, with a much more tranquil feel to the North.

A million miles from home in Alleppey

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Our accommodation right by the water

Arriving in Alleppey was like stumbling upon a small slice of paradise,

Very different to the North’s crazy and busy cities, it felt like a million miles away. My first thought was the amount of palm trees everywhere, so big and green and filling every space, all packed full with coconuts. There’s something about palm trees for me that is just so tropical and far from home, the ultimate definition of paradise.

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So many coconuts!

I arrived at a lovely homestay with my tour group, our rooms right on Kerala’s backwaters, surrounded by palm trees and tropical fruit growing everywhere. We had a guided walk around town, through various plantations, being taught about the types of plants and fruit they use everyday.

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Exploring Alleppey village


The friendly villagers came out to greet us, children splashed around in the canal and goats and chickens roamed around freely. Such a small, welcoming little village with a slow pace of life that was well received by the group after a tiring few days travelling. The highlight of this place was most definitely the boat ride at sunset .

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Changing colours of Kerala’s backwaters…

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Drifting along in our dugout canoes
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This moment…

We hopped onto dug out canoes and set off around the village backwaters, slowly drifting through the canals and palm trees, all filled with an abundance of coconuts. As the sun set the sky was ever-changing, from yellow to dusty pink and purple followed by a deep orange, that not only filled the sky but the water too. Images of the sky and palm trees reflected off the water, tips of the tress glowed orange until finally turning into beautiful silhouettes, whilst the water gently rippled as we slowly waded through. It was just stunning.

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The colours continually changing
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A dusty pink sky
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Probably the most beautiful sunset I’ve seen

We ate well that night back at the homestay and again in the morning I awoke to a striking sunrise, mirroring the sunset of the previous night. Followed by a breakfast of fresh fruit and coconut bread I felt completely stress free, not wanting to be anywhere other than there, in that moment.

Alleppey certainly lived up to its reputation and actually was even better than I had expected. If you’re looking for a break after rushing around the busier parts of India then Alleppey is where you need to head! 2 or 3 days here and you will surely feel relaxed, energised and ready to get back on the travelling horse (if that’s even a thing?!).

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Being in the Cotswolds is like being in an English fairytale. It’s just so pretty! You know when you see something in pictures and you think ‘I’m sure its not really that nice’, well the Cotswolds really are! You will be in photographer heaven on a visit here, I found myself just not being able to put my camera down- I wanted to photograph anything and everything.

There is something incredibly romantic about the Cotswolds villages too. It’s that fresh country air, the smell of flowers lined up on every path and the sound of children playing in the running streams. Its idyllic. The charming honeycomb cottages, edged by sparking streams and the lush green countryside. Quintessentially English is an understatement.

So here are 9 of the best villages in the Cotswolds…

Castle Combe

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Admiring the view

Castle Combe is one of the first villages you will come across if driving from London. The village is frequently named one of the prettiest in England and was one of my favourites for sure (although so hard to choose!). The small high street leading down to a little bridge over a gorgeous stream really makes this village picture-perfect. There are a few different side streets with cute tea and coffee shops and obviously a church (every village has a church!).

coffee shop sign, Castle Combe Cotswolds

Bibury

honeycomb houses by stream

Bibury is just past the bigger town of Cirencester and is an idyllic little village, with welcoming cottages all lined up opposite a small stream. This tiny street is one of the most photographed in the Cotswolds. I enjoyed people watching from the bridge over the stream, kids playing in the water and the pace of life in the English countryside. Every cottage is lovingly kept and decorated with hanging flower pots.

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Picture Perfect 🙂
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The idyllic village of Bibury

Bourton on the Water

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Summer fun at Bourton on the Water

VERY popular in summer with locals and tourists spilling out onto the stream that runs through the village. This is a good size village with plenty of cafes and souvenir shops to keep you occupied. There is also the motoring museum and a model village of the town. It was really busy when I visited but I can see why as it is such gorgeous place to enjoy the English summertime.

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Lower Slaughter & Upper Slaughter

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Mill shop & Museum, Lower Slaughter
Mill shop & Museum

Not gonna lie, I am still confused about which is which, as these two pretty villages just seem to merge into one another (although most images are from Lower Slaughter I think). This was another favourite place of mine and a lot quieter than some of the other villages. The Slaughters are very quiet and green and great for just wandering. There is a small stream (always a stream it seems!) and a little church. Even a couple of girls on horseback rode past, just as the sun was lowering, giving a golden glow to everything it touched. I mean…just perfect.

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We found a pretty church 🙂
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Stow on the Wold

Stow on the wold street

This old market town is where me and my boyfriend stayed overnight at a gorgeous little Airbnb, complete with ‘Romeo and Juliet’ balcony! Took a few cheesy photos- couldn’t resist!

I’ve never travelled with a boyfriend so being in the Cotswolds was such a romantic place to visit- including St Edwards church. Walk around to the other side and you will find 2 trees perfectly situated on either side of the wooden church door. I feel more cheesy romantic shots coming…!

Stow on the Wold has many choices of cuisine and the pub at the end of the street plays live music in the evenings. Lots of quirky antique shops and art galleries to explore in the daytime too.

Chipping Campden

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This charming historic town has a fairly substantial high street compared to the smaller villages. The stone buildings line the main street in an elegant fashion, with many tea/coffee rooms and souvenir shops to choose from. There is a pretty impressive church and gardens too.

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In the main square, Chipping Campden

Snowshill

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Snowshill- the less touristy village

This sweet little village is pretty small with views over green rolling hills. It has its name due to the village being on a hill, so when it snows it lands there first. This pocket sized town is much less touristy than the others.

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Snowshill is so sleepy

Close by are the Cotswolds Lavender fields which are definitely worth a look in summer. The smell is incredible and its just English countryside at its best!

Blockley

Blockley has some great countryside walks and a mill stream winding through into the valley. I only had a short time here, just passing through but found it to be very quiet and the least touristy places of all the villages. The village is known for it’s silk production, reflected in the buildings looking a little bit different from other Cotswolds villages.

Broadway

Broadway high street, Cotswolds
Main street, Broadway

Broadway is another popular spot for tourists and local alike, with a big main street and plenty of antiques shops, museums and places to eat. The honey coloured buildings burst with historic architecture, as demonstrated by The Lyon Arms Hotel.

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The Lygon Arms
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Exploring the laneways

Hope you enjoyed reading about these gorgeous little villages. There are just too many to pick from! For sure I will be going back here as I didn’t get a chance to see half of what I wanted. Just gives me an excuse now to go back now- perhaps in winter. If you haven’t seen what the Cotswolds look like in the snow then google that now (trust me- amazing!).

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New York City is full of activities and attractions from the incredible shopping, numerous art galleries and fantastic Broadway shows. Everything in this 24 hour city is open late which makes it easy to create a jammed packed itinerary if short on time.

I spent 11 days here but rushed around so much in the first half that I didn’t leave much else do! I would have preferred spending more time in the galleries than I did. So I have created a 7 day itinerary for you, fitting in the best of NYC. This will be quite busy but definitely do-able and if you have more time then it’s easy to spend longer on activities or just add in more attractions to the mix!

Day 1- Central Park, The Met, Shopping

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Pretty Central Park

Have a nice lie in after a long flight, then grab some brekkie at coffee or bagel shop before taking a stroll around Central Park. The park is HUGE so you won’t be able to fit it all in one day but you can walk through it to the find The Metropolitan Museum of Art. This is also huge so pick a couple of sections instead of trying to do the whole thing. You literally can spend the whole day here!

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You can spend hours at the Met!

If your still raring to go then hit some of the shops in Midtown. Columbus circle is also great for shopping and right by the south end of the park.

Day 2- Top of the Rock, Times Sq, High line, Circle Line

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Great views at Top of the rock

Try and get to the Rockefeller Center at 8am (opening time). I would seriously recommend going at this time as I pretty much just walked straight up. At busy times the queue can be very long. The morning light is amazing over the city and it was definitely a favourite attraction of mine. You get great views overlooking the Empire state and Central Park.

Since you will be near to Times Square, you may as well see what all the fuss is about. It is incredibly busy with tourists everywhere but it does kinda take your breath away. I was just standing there moving around in circles at all the lights and displays in every direction.

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Times square

Grab some lunch (any cuisine you like!) and then take the subway to The High Line. This is a walkway on an old railway line in the Chelsea area. It’s a different way to see the city and perfect for photographers. If you start The High line at the Whitney Museum of Art and walk North then you can carry on walking along the Hudson river to the circle line pier.

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Walk the High Line

Here you can take the sunset cruise on the circle line and see NYC by day and night. It will also go quite close to the statue of liberty and around the downtown end of Manhattan for those amazing cityscape views looking back at the city.

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See the city from another angle on the circle Line Cruise

Day 3- Shopping, Moma and Broadway

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Endless shopping

Time to shop! (yay). Dedicate some time for shopping, there are so many shopping areas to choose from like the designer shops on 5th Avenue to Chelsea’s trendy boutiques or discount designer stores like Century 21 near Columbus Circle. Shops are open very late so you literally can shop til you drop! If you’re here at Christmas time be sure to check out the window displays in the department stores.

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NYC shopping at Christmas!
New York Christmas window displays
New York Christmas window displays

If you need a break from shopping then head to the Museum of Modern Art (Moma) which is just off of 5th Avenue. They have some famous paintings here so it’s worth a visit. Moma is also free on Fridays 4-8pm but gets very busy.

In the evening head to a Broadway show. ‘TKTS’ booths sell discount tickets for the same day if you don’t mind waiting in line. I booked online for the Christmas Spectacular and it was amazing. Christmas in New York is kinda magical.

Christmas Spectacular, NYC
The Christmas Spectacular was amazing!

Day 4- Museums and Empire State

If you’re into art then New York perfect for you. Check out the Museum of Natural History situated in the Upper West side. It’s one of the oldest museums in the worlds and is full of interesting and fun exhibits. Then you can explore some more of the park whilst walking over to the Upper east side (takes around 30 minutes from the West).

The Upper East side is where the Guggenheim Museum is situated. The quirky museum is interesting in architecture but I found the art a little too ‘contemporary’ for my liking. A short walk up 5th Avenue will take you to the Museum of the City of New York. This is quite small but worthwhile to find out about the people who make up the city and the struggles citizens have had throughout the years. Some exhibitions are permanent and some are special exhibitions. There is a ‘suggested donation’ as with a lot of museums so you really pay what you like or can afford.

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Guggenheim Museum

After an arty day, have a big dinner in the city or relax in a bar before heading up to the Empire state building. After 10pm it gets quiet- I just went straight up without queuing. Even though it might be a late time it will save you waiting hours in the queue and you also get to see the city at night. You can see the bright lights of Times Square even from way up at the top.

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The lights of Times Square
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Day 5- Walk the Bridge to Brooklyn

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Walk over the Brooklyn Bridge

Walking the Brooklyn Bridge was one of my favourite activities- and its free! I would suggest getting here at 8/9am for fewer crowds and to make the most of the day. I left a bit late so at 11am it was already busy. You can get some incredible shots of the bridge and looking back at Manhattan. Once over the other side you can explore cool and hip areas likes Dumbo and Williamsburg. Brooklyn Bridge Park offers fantastic views back at the city.

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Explore the streets of Brooklyn

Brooklyn has a grungy but trendy feel about it and is much more relaxed than Manhattan. Take a stroll around Brooklyn Museum and the botanical gardens. Or for something a bit different head to the New York Transit Museum, set in an old subway station. You can walk through old subway trains form the 1920’s upwards.

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An old subway carriage at the Museum of Transport

If you’re here for Christmas then check out Brooklyn’s Christmas lights in Dyker Heights. Local residents with huge houses put on massive light displays every year. The area with most lights is from 83rd to 86th Street and in between 11th Avenue to 13th Avenue, although I saw some really pretty houses on the way so it’s worth wandering around a bit. The area felt very safe and I felt fine walking that late by myself.

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If you’re visiting at Xmas, check out the Dyker Heights lights

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Day 6- Harlem, 9/11 Memorial and Chelsea Galleries

Aim for an early start and head to the African-American suburb of Harlem. I was a little nervous going here alone as it sometimes gets a bad rep but it was mostly ok, although I did get a few stares. I stuck to the main street (125th st) and wandered around a few side streets to get some shots of the typical brownstone houses. Although the main areas are pretty safe I do think I would have felt more comfortable (being a solo female) with a walking tour.

Grab an early lunch to make time for a visit to the 9/11 Memorial and Museum. This is quite upsetting walking around and hearing the stories from the people who witnessed this day. I actually spent around 3 hours here as there is a lot read and watch. The atmosphere is very calm and almost silent- a humbling visit.

Find a cafe for a tea or coffee and a little pick me up and then spend the afternoon in the nearby artsy area of Chelsea. From 18th-25th streets you will find small galleries lined alone each street and they are all free! Sometimes the work you will find here is better than that in the bigger galleries. Just wander up and down the block and head into any gallery that takes your fancy.

Chelsea art galleries
Chelsea art galleries

  Day 7-  Hop on Bus, Downtown and Bryant Park

The Big Bus tours are great to get around and see the city from a different perspective. Hop on the downtown tour and head to Bryant park. At Christmas they have a winter village and an outdoor ice rink. Then hop back on the bus to explore the Flatiron building or Chinatown. This would be a great place to stop for a cheap lunch.

Flatiron building
Flatiron building
Chinatown NYC
Grab some cheap eats in Chinatown

Then jump off the bus at Wall St, the heart of the Financial district. Everyone wants a photo with ‘the Charging Bull’ so to save waiting in line I would get there early. Then you can wander down to Battery Park. Sit, relax and enjoy views of the Statue of Liberty in the distance.

The Charging Bull, nyc
The Charging Bull

So there we have a weeks worth of things to do in New York. It was quite art focused I know but there are many activities to do instead if that’s not your thing. You can hire out cycles, go on a neighbourhood walking tour or a food and gospel tour in Harlem, visit Madame Tussauds, or Staten Island Zoo. The list is endless!

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How do I get to Manhattan from JFK Airport?

Taxis are expensive and the shuttle buses are time consuming. I would recommend using the AirTrain. This is a cheap and efficient option and I found it pretty easy to navigate. Take the AirTrain from JFK to Jamacia station then change to the E train all the way into Midtown, Manhattan.

How Do I Get Around?

Definitely buy the 7 day unlimited Metro card, which can be bought just before getting on the AirTrain. This will give you unlimited rides on the subway and buses and at $32 (as of 2018) it’s great value for money. You will soon get used to using the subway its not as hard as first appearances might suggest.

Where do I stay?

There are several hostels in Manhattan and many in Brooklyn if you don’t mind the 40 minute commute, it will be slightly cheaper. That goes for Airbnb as well. I managed to find a good deal, situated in the Upper West side, on 73rd St. I found this a perfect location and right by the park! Hotels are everywhere from budget to ridiculously expensive.

How Much Should I Budget?

Obviously a hard question to answer as it depends on how much you will spend on shopping, food, etc. I roughly spent around £1300 but I was there for 11 nights. That included around £470 for my Airbnb, £140 for the explorer pass, £300 on shopping, £200 on food, £50 on extra activities, £70 for a show and £35 on transport. It will be easy to spend much less or much more depending on how crazy you go!

Tip: The city explorer pass is a great way to save on attractions. The New York pass is expensive and only worthwhile if you’re smashing out the activities everyday. The explorer pass allows you to pick from 3, 4, 5, 7, or 10 attractions.

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I’m sure most other travellers will know exactly what’s coming when I say ‘assumptions travellers hate’. Yep, its the classic “when are you going to get into the real world?”, “you cant travel forever”, “sounds like you’re running away from your problems”. ENOUGH! We are not running away! We are running into something that excites us, motivates us and gives us something we can barley even explain to the outside world. They just don’t get it. How can you explain something you cant understand yourself. How do you explain a feeling, an emotion?

Because, that’s what travel is to me. It’s how it makes me feel. Something so incredibly hard to explain. If you are an avid traveller too, you will know this feeling. It’s that smile that creeps across your face when the sunlight weaves it’s way through the trees in that perfect orange glow. It’s that warmth you feel when you are welcomed into a new culture. And it’s the anticipation of arriving to a new place and wondering what your journey will become. This is what draws me in time and time again.

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However I feel I’m always having to defend myself and my values and explain why I do what I do. These are some of the most common misconceptions:

When are you going to stop travelling and get real?

Get real? What does that even mean?! You mean when am I going to get a 9-5 job, stare at the same 4 walls everyday, come home, watch tv and go to bed- day in day out. Is that normal? Does doing the above things mean you have made it in life, have a good quality of life and are happy? Is that what we must strive to be? Anyone doing anything other that that is strange and not conforming. Why do we need to be in one place, one office, with a continuous routine to be accepted as ‘normal’?

Maybe I’m not ready to live that life. I don’t want to be sitting at home or work imagining all the things I will do one day, until I realise that suddenly I’m 80 years old and one day has since long passed. While I’m young, have the freedom and little commitments then why not?! This is the perfect time before starting a family or career and focusing on other commitments.

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I’ve been told before that I’m not living reality. Well what makes reality- a boring routine day in day out? I’m sure there can be more than one reality- it may be different from the majority of people but does that make it better or worse. No, it’s what’s right for you. One day maybe the 9-5 thing will be my ‘reality’. Maybe not. I don’t think one is better than the other. This is how I’m choosing to live my life and that’s fine for me, so why is it an issue for people? I’m sacificing a career over having little money but being able to travel. Others may have to career but are not able to take long breaks from work. Its a choice and this is my choice.

Are you running away from your problems?

Huh! Every time, someone has to ask it! I’ve been asked this question or it’s been assumed so many times now its just annoying. Travel in itself is a form of escapism, agreed. You’re a million miles from home yes, but that does not mean that’s the sole reason I choose to travel. I’m not running away from problems and as I think any traveller will tell you- problems will follow you. If something is on your mind at home then it probably will be once you hit the road. There are more distractions when you’re travelling but that same worry/problem will linger. I mean solo travelling is a great way to sit back and reflect on your life, figure out any issues and generally have a good overview of what you would like to change (if anything). This is not the same as running away.

I don’t travel to fix my problems- I travel because I love it. There’s no reason bigger than that. Its just me.

Are you ever going to settle down?

Yes of course! Ii would be great to have a nice home and start a family and I wonder why people would assume otherwise. I was being asked this question in my mid- twenties though. I mean…seriously, again with the ‘norms’. Just because I’m travelling a lot now does not mean I will be to this extent for the rest of my life.

Yes, travel will always be a part of my life but that doesn’t mean that I don’t want children and to settle down. I would love that one day but it seems like there’s another rule that after the age of 25 you need to suddenly come home, get a ‘real job’ and buy a house! If you do anything different your abnormal or rebelling. So yes, I do want to settle but when I’m ready to do so.

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Are you travelling just for a good Instagram photo?

Oh my. Where do I begin with this one. Firstly I’m not travelling to put up photos on social media, to show off or to get as many likes as possible. I’m travelling for myself. My social media photos are just a product of my accomplishment that I want to share. They are my life and I am proud of them.

Getting into the travel bogging world of course I’m starting to plan my pictures to take images for blog posts I will be working on but this is not the actual reason I travel. Its part of my travelling that I do for my website. Sometimes I see a place in a magazine and think ‘I would love that photo’ – it does not mean I’m going there solely to ‘get a photo’ – it’s the journey along the way and seeing a new place that’s the draw. The photo is something to show where I have been.

I love photography, I’m an amateur but I just take photos of everything when I travel and love looking back at past photos and seeing all the things I’ve done. They hold so many memories for me and I remember things that have been forgotten otherwise. They are special too me. So when people ask why I feel the need to take photos or that I’m just travelling ‘just to get a good photo’, it bothers me. Yes, I do want a good photo- I want to practise my photography and maybe even sell a few prints in which I do need a good photo. It is not to get as many likes on social media, its for myself. A hobby that fits perfectly well with my other hobby- travelling.

If you are a traveller I’m sure you would have come across at least one of these assumptions about travelling. I feel like its so hard to explain to someone who doesn’t understand why we travel, so inevitably there will be questions, judgements and assumptions. Sometimes they do get to you but I try to just keep on going with my life. I want to look back at all the adventures I’ve had with no regrets that I missed my chance. I travel for adventure, to see different cultures, try new foods, photograph incredible landscapes, hike to amazing waterfalls and to live the life I want. Like I said before its hard to explain, its just part of me.

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Four amazing days, tired feet, injured knees, ups, downs, gringo killers, great food, funny guides, watching stars by night, early mornings, late night rum, all came down to this.

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Not bad…

Standing above the grey clouds, cold and wet and wearing a brightly coloured yellow poncho bought from a cheap Cusco market, I look around at this magical and mysterious place, wondering how I ever made it here. This remarkable place could almost seem entirely secret, if it wasn’t for the daily herds of never-ending tourists of course. Trying to suppress my minor disappointment at the weather I look around at this wonderful place named Machu Picchu. I’ve actually made it.

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Cusco, the starting base.

Lets journey back a few days…

Arriving at Cusco, which sits at 3400m, I feel an altitude headache arise. A handful of loose coaca leaves in hot water prove to be a great cure and my headache soon vanishes. Must remember to leave the coaca leaves behind before flying home though! The cobbled streets of Cusco pack a big punch with quirky local markets and many adventure activities like rafting, mountain biking and horseback riding, all within easy reach. It’s easy to spend several days here. Inca ruins are found in the surrounding hills, with the Sacred Valley being nearby. Luckily, the town is the starting point for the majority of tourists headed on the Inca trail, so there are many hiking shops around.

trek sign Inca Trail

Walking poles are a must as frustratingly I have patellar tendonitis on both knees. Determined not to let it stop me. I’m also buying a lot (and I mean a lot) of snacks. More is more in this case! I would hate to run out of my snickers and cereal bars half way up the mountain. Machu Picchu is set amongst the Andes mountain ranges and sits at 2430m. That’s a fair amount of fuel needed, so I pack my bag with the essentials to make sure it fits to the required weight limit. I try to pack light and for changeable weather. Just about manage it, feeling ready and eager to take on this challenge.

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Views from day 1

So the first day of the trail begins and I’m picked up at the ungodly hour of 4:30am and driven to Ollantaytambo, a local village. Surrounded by green rolling hills, I sit in a small hut with chickens, children and guinea pigs running around my feet whilst having a simple breakfast, prepared by a local Inca family. This is my first chance to meet the other trekkers I will be with for the next four days. I was pleased with my group of mid to late twenty something’s, as well as two guys from another group in their late fifties and much fitter than the rest. They would soon be ahead of us for the whole trek.

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And…back up again

We are driven in a minivan to the start of the Inca Trail, nerves and excitement at the forefront, walking poles and knee bandages prepared. Once through there’s a tad sense of false security as a gentle path gradually leads us up. I’m sure it will get harder! The rain starts almost immediately and the colourful ponchos are straight on, rain not beating us just yet. I can’t believe how great the scenery is, stopping what seems like every five minutes to take a photo.

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steep steps

We walk past small Inca sites, endless green hills and mountains hiding behind one another, only giving us a glimpse of the challenge ahead. Day two, I know is the hardest and on everyone’s minds as we plough along, wondering what we’ve got ourselves in for. We arrive at camp to find it’s already set up by the porters.

These admirable men, some the age of most grandparents, carry 20kg whizzing past everyone to have camp set up and food cooked before we arrive. In the past they would carry up to 60kg until it was legally put a stop to. With little pay and no complaints I am in awe of these men. The food is delicious, with a combination of soup, meat, rice, pasta and a sweet pancake for dessert. After dinner everyone goes to bed but I stay up to watch the stars, so bright and so many.

I wrap up warm and sit in amazement at the dancing stars, hoping this peaceful and magical moment is one I won’t forget.

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The porters
At camp, inca trail
At camp

The Second Day…

Day two, wake at 6:30am smelling fresh mountain air, for a breakfast omelette to fuel the toughest day of the trek. This is the day considered most challenging and climbing a 1000ft in a day, I can see why. It’s pretty much uphill for 8 hours to reach Dead Woman’s Pass at 13,828ft (the highest point of the trek). Supposedly the rocks from below look like a woman lying on her back, the name doesn’t mean that you will be dead once at the top! (or at least I hope not).

Dead Womans Pass
Dead Womans Pass
Trail down from Dead womans pass
Trail down from Dead womans pass

At altitude everyday things such as breathing suddenly become increasingly difficult but I push on to be near the front, as mentally cannot be at the back. The air gets thinner. I’m frustrated as my mind and body want to push on but my knees hold me back. I power through this mental mind game and arrive as one of the first to Dead Woman’s Pass, much to my surprise.

Walking down from Dead Womans Pass
Walking down from Dead Womans Pass

Soaking in the views and accomplishment just achieved, we wait for the others, cheering them on as they reach the top. Through laughter and tears we have made it, now just need to head back down the other side. So yes I was at the back from this point onwards, as apparently knee injuries and steep down-hills do not mix. The views keep me going. The thought of food also keep me going. Finally I make it in time for dinner and relax with the group, playing card games and chatting about the day.

That night the porters give me a little warm rum before bed and I sleep like a baby.

 

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Day 3 on the Inca Trail

So after covering my ever-increasingly greasy hair with a hat, I’m ready for one of the most scenic days. I certainly see why Machu Picchu is one of the ‘new’ seventh wonders of the world. Day three takes you through jungle and mountainous backdrops, the sun streaming through the trees and birds flying overhead.

Feeling tired on day 3, Inca Trail
Feeling tired on day 3
Rainforest section, Inca trail
Rainforest section on day 3

We stop for lunch opposite a group of Inca ruins. The Americans have already eaten and are now off to face the gringo killers. That would be downhill steep steps for forty five minutes and which go on far too long for my comfort. I shuffle down them using my hands, like a baby learning to walk down the stairs. After surviving this, I find a birthday treat for me at camp. The porters have baked an entire cake half way up the mountain, making me feel extra special indeed.

small set of inca ruins on the inca trail
Inca ruins along the way
The dreaded gringo killers, Inca trail
The dreaded gringo killers

Ok so the final day has arrived and after heavy rain throughout the night, it’s still ongoing and everyone is miserable. I try to be positive hoping the rain makes way to pretty sunshine. After two hours of walking, mostly under the trees and then passing through the compulsory checkpoint, a member of the group shouts “Look!”.

I raise my eyes through the slowly drifting clouds to see the extraordinary Inca ruins that make up this ancient city. There, in front of me, is the image that has been driving me since day one. The one thing I have kept in my head, willing me to continue through tired legs and hurried breaths. I am finally looking down at Machu Picchu.

machu picchu, Inca trail
I made it!

The rain in no way hides the beauty of this place. These ruins are believed to have been built at the height of the Inca empire during the fifteenth century and were built entirely without mortar. They were later abandoned and I can only imagine how thriving this place once was. I’m particularly impressed with the intelligent system leading water from a spring and using gravity to feed it through to various parts of the city.

Hoards of day tourists, machu picchu
Hoards of day tourists

There are a lot of tourists here and I wish I were alone to take the setting in with all its wonderment. Clouds drift slowly through the mountains and surrounding the ruins, adding a prehistoric feel to this already mysterious place.

Machu Picchu in the rain
Machu Picchu in the rain

After a quick tour, exploring and taking photos we head through the huge number of day tourists, all smelling great as opposed to us and take a bus down to Aguas Calientes. This small town is busy with tourists strolling around, looking at gift shops and dining for lunch after their trip. Like most, I take this opportunity to visit the hot springs, a life saver after four days of walking and I feel the pain slowly fade away. Feeling much more relaxed we all fall asleep on the train back to Cusco.

Aguas Calientes town, peru
Aguas Calientes

A bath has never felt so good and I feel like a new woman. This journey has been tough, exhilarating and exhausting but one I will never forget. I’m glad I chose the classic trail, with it being great for diverse scenery yet still a nice four days, as opposed to some of the longer treks. Back at the hotel a surprising amount of energy has taken over my body and I decide to join the rest of the group at a small bar in the town square. The hours and hours of walking have apparently not quite defeated me just yet and I dance the night away, celebrating my small little victory.

More Reading: Impressive Day Hikes: Huaraz, Peru

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Hello! I’m Sam and welcome to my site! I’m a British backpacker who has been solo travelling on and off since 2007. Slowly making my way around the globe as a solo female traveller, I have now made it to every continent except Antarctica (one day!).

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How I got started as a solo female traveller…

I started travelling aged 18, working on a wildlife sanctuary in South Africa. This is where I caught the travel bug and have been on and off travelling ever since. From teaching Buddhist monks in Sri Lanka, sleeping outside Bangkok station, exploring famous New York City or struggling on the Inca trail, it’s fair to say I’ve had my share of adventures.

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